what's ur opinion shud there any physical relation between them like sex and all......specify the reason also????
2006-07-09 18:53:31 · 13 answers · asked by cancerian_in_demand 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If there is then won't nothing be new on the wedding night but the rings.
2006-07-09 18:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by lucygoon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this question is one that test your ethics and religion. Personally i say yes. if you love this person and you both are planning a life TOGETHER, then yes. believe it or not, sex plays a very important part in any relationship. a couple has that emotional love and also that physical love. the physical love (sex) translates that emotional love without words. it is the closeness. just imagine..... having sex or making love is the closest that any two people get with one another. it involves so much of you that it hard to explain in words, but it can be shown through your actions. it is just like a kiss. if you really want to know how much a person really likes you, then give them a kiss. you can't fake the passion that a good kiss holds. no matter how hard you try, you can't fake a kiss when you are not really into a person. so my advice is to have sex, enjoy one another, and add great sex to your list of reasons why you love them so much.
2006-07-09 19:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by ms floyd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey that is no longer authentic.sex with a minor is illegitimate in India.And premarital sex is a private topic.It relies upon upon the persons what they prefer,when they're adults.regardless of they do,they're those to face the end result.Love does no longer mean sex.Its more suitable than that.what's that this prostitute mentality element you're speaking about.Love and courting and sex are appropriate yet also break away one yet another. i'm an Indian woman,yet I easily do not understand what you're speaking about. and by no potential all guy are after sex,some want a extreme courting too.It purely relies upon on the guy.One needs to be smart and matured to chosen their boyfriend.If a lady is immatured and has no theory on the thanks to comprehend who's certainly worth her trust and who isn't,then she shouldn't date.Get rid off this mentality that slumbering with a guy makes a lady ****.and there is not any relation between widow/divorced than a lady excited by premarital sex.
2016-11-06 03:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you wouldn't have a physical relationship with the person you love and want to grow old with. I see no reason why two people would deny themselves that up until a wedding night. I think that people who wait are being kind of unnatural. Intimacy is the difference between all your friends and and the friend you call your partner. So why decide on a partner but shy away from all the intimacy until you've signed your life over? It blows my mind.
2006-07-09 19:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by carolynator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiancee and I have lived together for a year and a half and, well, you know what goes on behind closed doors. We are getting married in August and haven't done anything since January. That way, it will be good all over again.
2006-07-09 22:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by c.grinnell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think kissing and hugging is cool b4, but for wedding nite just have fun. Everything that is new is cool on 1st nite. so yeah, just enjoy - affectionate is a better word. Save the physical until you've worked out the affectionate side of things...
2006-07-09 18:58:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As per Indian customs, NO!
But in these days(Modern) people tend to be more open and do seek such relations before marriage! Quite common!
2006-07-09 18:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by nikhi121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would advice everyone to wait until their wedding night because it's so worth it, but the truth is that I don't know if I could take my own advice.
It's a very personal thing, but if the wedding is a few months away, just wait, you won't regret it.
2006-07-09 18:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by Peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer to this is no because for one if he or she loves you they are going to love you no matter what, the other thing is that to me a relationship chages when you add sex to it. I was also told that any thing worth having is worth waiting for, don't ever sell your self short your the one who has to live with your choices.
you'll be blessed too.
2006-07-10 07:52:27 · answer #9 · answered by sistercoolus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait it will give him incentive and both of you something to savor and look forward to if you haven't already done it, then wait.
and then...why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?
2006-07-09 19:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋