You find out that your man is cheating on you with his ex but u do not want to break up with him because you really love him a whole lot and you do not want to leave him at all , well what should I do ?
2006-07-09 18:40:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You answered your own question. You're gonna stay with him so live with it. He's never gonna stop and you're never gonna trust him. why live like that?
2006-07-09 18:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by itsmeee2006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are with a man who may be hot, may act sweet or cute around you, may be pretty cool in a lotta ways but honey, he doesn't respect you. If you put up with his crap you will fall deeper and deeper into the role of victim. You gotta walk out on this dude cause he's gonna end up gettin germs all over you. You're gonna end up feeling sick all the time and the whole thing's gonna swallow you up and you'll lose yourself. You're gonna hurt for a while without him, that's OK, but then you're gonna start to see a lot more clearly and you won't regret doing something hard and standing up for yourself.
2006-07-10 01:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by carolynator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The big alarm here is that he's not just cheating with a stranger (still awful), but with someone he's had a relationship with in the past. I'd think this is a big sign to get out, even if you still love him. You don't deserve to be treated like second-best.
2006-07-10 01:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by Chark Finn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend is going through the same thing.. so ill tell you the same thing i told her [ pretty much ] , so you love him and everything & he loves you right? i would say that if you really believe its a strong love & relationship & you guys can both see each other out through this.. that you sit him down and talk to him about it.. because if he really loves you as much as you love him. he take the time and try and stop . and if he doesnt than maybe you should rethink your whole view on this guy.. that if hes going to be running back to his ex ( & shes his ex for a reason ) than maybe he isnt worth your time... and if this doesnt work out. dont give up because somewhere out there , there is a guy that is going to treat you the right way..
2006-07-10 01:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by x_beautifullybroken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go see a shrink. Find out why you feel no self worth to be willing to tolerate a life of mental abuse.
2006-07-10 01:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should stay with for as long as you can and do right by him. You should suprise him with something special, but not too special, it wouldn't look right for a girl getting her boyfriend something worth more than you!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-10 02:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by SAMONE M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rethink it all bc chances are if he cheatin one he will do it again or just ask him if he would ever do it again explain how you feel and how you felt when you found out he was being unfaithful
2006-07-10 01:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by phil_jc_2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋