2006-07-09 18:25:55 · 35 answers · asked by scarlet speedster 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't even kno wat 2 tell u about that because i'm in da same situation but only time can heal a broken heart. I can tell u that much just try to move on wit ur life and try not to think about the negative think about the positive times u 2 had together and it will heal eventually. Trust. Just wait like i'am.
2006-07-09 18:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by peaches 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad that you are hurting, I know it is not fun at all as I have been in your situation a great many times.
To your question I will say that there are basically five steps in which each person deals with pain the first is denial and they cannot believe that the situation happened in the first place.
The second is anger, the third is grieving, the fourth is acceptance, and lastly there is understanding.
With respect to each of these five steps to any situation which brings about personal pain, each person transcends to the next stage only when the time is right for them to do so.
therefor the amount of time it takes is totally dependent to the individual circumstance, and how fast the person can transcend those stages, once you have accepted it, and understood it though not only will your pain end, but you will have become wiser because of it.
2006-07-09 18:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by Thoughtfull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it takes a really long time. But little by little, every day gets easier. And you gotta take this time to start celebrating who you are. Stop thinking about the past and someone else and start getting excited for who you are and what you can do with your life. Endless possibilities. I think you should start tonight by writing a long list of your qualities. Then get some sleep, as everything feels a little better in the morning after some sleep.
2006-07-09 18:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by carolynator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your heart will heal at the speed that it needs and there is no sense in trying to rush it or convince yourself otherwise. More importantly, you need to hold on to the fact that we measure our happiness by comparing it to our sadness. So, the pain you feel now will someday be part of the joy you will feel later. Just as the joy you felt before is part of the pain you feel now. Just focus on the day to day, spend time with family and good friends and eventually one day you will wake up and realize that it doesn't hurt so much anymore. Love yourself and forgive yourself, its the only way...Good Luck...
2006-07-09 18:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends upon what you are hurt over. Generally, the pain only goes away once you accept whatever happened and deside it is time to move on.
Try doing things that make you happy, especially with family and friends.
Honostly, the pain may never go away completely but hopefully you can minimize the hurt by filling your heart with joy from new friendships and positive experiences. Don't rush it but don't dwell on it either.
Take Care,
2006-07-09 18:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time . The longer you are into a relationship the longer to heal.. You will fine someone else when you least exspect it. You go thur different stages of relationships . Things will work out for the best when the time comes. Don't rush into another relation ship ,Good luck . Pem
2006-07-09 18:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime's the hurt never goes away. Depend's on what kind of hurt your feeling. Thing's just take time & will get better in time. You need to find a good friend that you can lean on to talk to that will listen to whatever you have to say & alway's be there for you no matter what the reason is. Thoes are the kind of friend's that will get us through the rough time's. Ive been there. If you need to talk you can alway's e mail me. Im a good listener. Don't let everything build up inside of you. That only make's thing's worse. I know Ive been there. angelbaby063031@yahoo.com
2006-07-09 18:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by angelbaby063031 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, seriously. Life is an amazing gift, and youre letting yours be ruined talking about some worthless chick, who will probably just end up nothing more than a housewife, sucking the life and money out of some idiot, dumb enough to marry her. Women arent worth it in the first place, and dont let them screw with your head, when youre not even with them. Let it go. Be a man, move on, and have fun, and try to adopt this attitude. Its better that shes gone. Hope this made ya feel better.
2006-07-09 18:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by cmil8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will end when you want it to. I mean really want it to. When your tired of feeling like crap and you want to go have fun and be a person again. It will happen. Try going out with some friends and do something you really like. After the first smile the rest come easier and easier. So get out there and put some effort into your happiness. No one can do it and no one will do it for you but you. I hope you find peace soon.
2006-07-09 18:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by ttti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will not heal as long as you continue to dwell too much on the one who broke your heart. Go out and live for yurself a bit and the wounds will start to go away. good luck! :)
2006-07-09 18:29:12 · answer #10 · answered by bambi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋