Do you know of girls having consensual sex and then lying about it?????

Question

I am so tired of girls having sex with their boyfriends and then when mommy and daddy find out they call the police and have the guy arrested for statutory rape. This law should be defined better. I'm so tired of the girls not stepping up and being honest. I have 3 boys ( 9,3, and 4 months) and I already worry that some girl is gonna pull that crap with my kids. Does anyone know of people in this situation and how did it turn out???

If something seriously happened and it was not consensual then absolutely that's a different situation and they should be locked up.
I know of at least 3 girls that called rape when everyone knows for a fact that they were having sex and the girls were bragging about it but once the parents found out then they cry rape. Im sick of it.

Answer 1

I have heard of that too and it really upsets me too. These days girls lie about everything so THEY don't get in trouble but they don't really think of the consequences for the boys they accuse. They don't realize that those boys are going to be labelled "sex-offenders" for the REST of their lives. I was raped when I was just a little girl, LONG before I even knew what sex was. So when I hear about girls doing this it is really insulting to me.

Answer 2

First of all you should educate your boys about the concept of "age of consent." If your girlfriend is below the age of consent and you have sex with her, you're committing statutory rape.

As to the law, I sort of agree. If the age difference between the two people is less than, say 4 years, and the younger is 16 or older, it shouldn't be rape IMHO.

Until the law is change, however, your boys should be taught to keep it in their pants until their girlfriend is of age in your state. If they know and they decide to go ahead and do it anyway, they aren't completely innocent victims.

Answer 3

I have two boys and I have the same fear. I only hope and pray that I can guide them into the right direction when they cross that bridge. I have heard about this before and it is really scary.. Also, these girls will lie about their age. I mean, some of these girls are 12 looking like they are 25!!! I live in Vegas..the city of sex and sin. So I see/hear this times 100. When it comes to my boys, I would hope that they would be careful with whom they choose to share themselves with and not be foolish. If they do face this situation, I pray for the guidance to reveal the truth. I hear ya girl, I hate it too. BW

Answer 4

I don't know anyone specifically in that situation, but you know a good solution? Just tell ur kids to keep their pants on. If they wait till they are adults, this kind of stuff happens alot less often, because neither them or the girls are immature little brats.

Answer 5

My friend. She had sex with her boyfriend and they both were consenting partners, but when here father found out, she admitted everything. Her father believes in no sex and thats his religion but not hers. He called the cops and her father told them that her boyfriend raped them. Even though she told her dad the truth he wouldn't believe her. But anywayz she told the cops the truth after her father went to sleep that night, and he only spent a couple of hours in jail. Everything worked out for her and him, they're getting married. But the father doesnt approve.

Answer 6

yeah i have heard of it... eventually the cops got it out of her that she was lying and dropped charges on him..
I feel bad for these guys that get stuck in the middle of it.
It's really sad.
Daddy should have raised thier lttle girls better..
and to not be liars at that..

Answer 7

some girls r hos that r trynna look innocent