My ex-girlfriend had her last menstruation about 3 weeks ago, the last time we had sex was about 2 weeks ago and I didn't came inside of her at all, we broke up the next day and she recently called me and told me that she is pregnant. Is that possible? I mean how can she actually know if she is pregnant within 2 weeks??? Her period is not due for about another week...I've heard that she needs to wait for her period to come and if it doesn't then maybe she is pregnant. I don't know if she is just making it up so I get back with her..I don't think its possible for her to know if she pregnant within 2 weeks of doing it...PLEASE HELP...she has been calling me all sort of things for not believing that she is pregnant...I NEED YOUR HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!
2006-07-09 18:11:07 · 11 answers · asked by <~Xcorpion~> 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
She already took a pregnancy test and SHE told me that it was positive, I haven't seen 'cuz she doesn't want me too...but is it possible to know if the last time we did it was 2 weeks...??? Don't they have to wait like a month to see if their period is late???
2006-07-09 18:30:20 · update #1
The best thing to do is to buy her a pregnancy test & have her take it in front of you (go into the bathroom or whatever while you wait for her). If she refuses to do so then maybe you shouldn't trust her on the fact that she is pregnant. It IS possible for her to know if she has taken a First Response pregnancy test (you can take them *before* your missed period & it works) but sometimes other tests can be inacurate. Wait a week or so & do as I suggested. If she gets mad at you for asking her do it, calmly explain to her that you need to know for sure for yourself because this is a big step in your life & you need to know how to prepare for it. If she still refuses then she is in no position to be a mother because she does not respect anybody's feelings but her own.
Look at her past though...Does she have a history of crying or wolf (well, pregnant)? I had a friend who did that to a few guys just to keep them in the relationship, it didn't work & when she really WAS pregnant nobody believed her until her ex did what I suggested for you to do.
2006-07-09 18:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by starlightstarbright 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to know that early. With tests as sensitive as they are these days you can find out 7-9 days before a missed period. However if your questioning her motovation, then it seems just as likely she is full of $h1t too. Your best bet to find out for sure without turning things into a big fight or having to get back with her is to PLAY NICE, go to her, be concerned as if you believe everything she is telling you, appopogise for not believing her and BE ACTIVE, tell her you want to be there for every aspect of the baby..including ALL of her doctors visits!!! If shes not pregnant she wont be going to the doctor and she certainly wont be taking you along! If she is, you have your proof!
Although, a little peice of advice if you do this and she refuses to let you go to the doctor, DOCUMENT EVERYTHING!!!!! If she IS pregnant and refusing to let you participate actively in the childs life, I can gurantee you will wind up in court and you are going to want everything she has done to prevent you from being active in the baby's life to be in writing to get you all the rights you are entitled to!!!
I've been through this kindof thing twice, once with my exhusband and a girl he was dating before we got together and once with a close friend of mine! I have been there from day one until the day my ex got custody and my friend proved she wasn't pregnant! If you need any advice email me! Girls that do that kindof thing chap my a$$!
2006-07-09 18:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its call a pregnancy test u dumb butt. they dont need to wait a month for their period otherwise no body would be buyin pregnancy tests. u'll definitely know shes pregnant when she starts to get fat or stops drinking alcohol. u screwed up big time!
n yeah girls can know if theyre pregnant two weeks later after sex
2006-07-10 00:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by dyboy34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you live but if you have the Women's Infant and Children program in your area take her there, you must go with her. They do free pregnancy testing, she would want you to be present for the results right!!! The program is also called W.I.C. Good Luck!
2006-07-09 18:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by SP Addict 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tie it in a knot is what my mother-in-law always says. If you don't want a child, then use protection. Grow up Mister. You guys playin games then leaving these girls high and dry is WRONG! If you want to play like an adult then act like one. If you had no intention of staying with that young lady, you had no right sleeping with her. Also take some advice: If you do not have any intentions of marrying a young lady you choose to sleep with, then leave her alone to begin with. Don't ruin her for a man who may love her in her future! GROW UP!
2006-07-09 18:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kimmy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the chances are isnt couldnt tell if she was pregnant yet. however never say never. However she could be pregnant from a previous time you had sex and what you thought was her last menstration was really the bleeding cuased by the fetus attaching itself to the uterus walls. I would be careful if i were you, i would demand proof. Women ( i am one) Will often times go to etremes to get what they want.. They are conniving B!tches..
2006-07-09 18:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by sera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go by the period thing. She can have one while pregnant (believe me, I know). Plus you can always have the DNA testing done afterwards anyway if you think this girl is lieing.
2006-07-10 04:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by anothersomeonenew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont panic!!! Just wait and see(really)
Some people love to play with your mind,and this may
be a way to hurt you,since the break up.
Remember,things you worry about,usually never happen anyway!
2006-07-09 18:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sherry H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stop having sex with people Find your self a wife. tell her to let you know when the baby get there you'll take the test if its true and the baby is yours you'll love it and take care of it.
2006-07-09 18:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by abundantoverflo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pregnancy test Dude
2006-07-09 18:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋