ok i went over to my friends house for a month over the summer n her brother came over well we ended up haven sex a couple times n we didnt use protection n now im scared that im pregnant i cant tell my mom or neone bout it cause they would flip i wanna get a test but i donno how im really scared n i dont no what to do .......help!!!
2006-07-09 18:01:32 · 8 answers · asked by penguin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Visit a Planned Parenthood in your area. Or check on the Internet for another type of clinic. They could give you the test and keep your confidentiality.
However!.... you really SHOULD at least talk to your mom about getting on the pill. You wouldn't have to reveal to her what happened. Please be sure to be safe next time!! Pregnancy isn't the only thing you can end up with from having unprotected sex, if you know what I mean.
2006-07-09 18:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by blueskies7890 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get a test. If you aren't pregnant, be wise and use a condom in the future. There's a lot more than pregnancy you have to worry about. If you are pregnant, you should tell your parents soon, as well as other close family members who might be able to help you make the best decision. Look up laws for your state on adoption and abortion options your parents have over you, depending on your age.
2006-07-10 01:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy Ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister had the same experience as you do. She got so scared to tell us about it and when she finally said it, dad slap her at the face, mom cried and we cried together. Its a normal reaction. Nothing we can do to turn back time,right? Sister age below 18 and we stick together as a family. I accompanied her during labor with her bf (husband now). Now she is a mother of a 6 moth old beautiful baby girl. Continue school. Our mother volunteered to look after her child.
I don't know about you, but family is a family. No matter what mistakes you've ever done, they forgive you. Why ? coz they love you too much..pls consider it and go to your mom right now..
2006-07-10 01:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by nike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get a test! If you're not preggs then don't stir up trouble. Do it NOW! If you are, you should go to your mom or a close friend. First you will need someone's support. After that, I wish you the best... HOpefully you're just worrying and anxious about doing something so dangerous.
2006-07-10 01:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by nicisprite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the store and buy one , if you are then they need to knoe i just went through kinda the same thing i know i am pregnant and i am 28 and i was scared to tell my mother because i have a 7 month old and now i am carring twins..wow i know.. well anyway now she knows and we are still as close as ever i do not know your situstion but i am sure what ever happens your mom will be there for you
2006-07-10 01:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by lolli pop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you need to think about your age. I am not sure how old you are but the first thing you need to do is tell your mom. It might be hard but a mother is a mother and will love uncondtionally. Take it from a mother.
2006-07-10 01:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really tell your parents...something wrong might happen. Tell them what happen and tell them your scared. I hope your not like 13-15.....if so u really need to tell your parents. They will find out if u r or not. after you tell them and if u r pregnant there isnt much they can do bout it. Just tell them.
2006-07-10 01:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i'm sure everything is gonna be fine just chill. ok u need to find sum1 2 talk to about this besides strangers. i'm sure theres sum1 u can trust and count on. good luck
2006-07-10 01:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by surfer girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋