well im in high school and this guy has asked me out three times every time he dumps me and he asked me out again i said yes is this the right thing????? HELP
2006-07-09 17:45:58 · 45 answers · asked by sweet_dancer872001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope this isn't the right thing. He's just using you then dumping you when he sees something he wants. You're either the rebound girl or just someone he can pass time with. And since he sees you keep saying Yes he keeps coming to you cause he knows your easy. Say No and move on and stop letting this jerk use you. You are more then that and much better then him. He's only using you and once he sees you put your foot down and say No he'll never come back.
2006-07-09 17:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um..
I can't really say anything..
My Ex and I have been on and Of for a year or so now..
I have never dumped her.. and yet I go back to her everytime
All i can say is that don't get to hurt in this thing. You will start to lose trust in every guy you date after this guy and that will just start every relationship as an up hill battle..
So I say no.. Find out why he dumped you and why he is back with you.. tell you just want to be friend so he can gain the trust that he has lost from you. And if he dose not like that, then Move on he is not worth your time.
2006-07-09 17:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by brian h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shouldn't have said yes the second time. Tell him to make up his mind if he wants to go out with u or not. Only when he seems sincere say yes. U r not something to be palyed with, he can't dump u and ask u to go out whenever he wants. By giving in to him u r giving him exactly what he wants.
2006-07-09 18:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Dump him this time and two other times too. If he agrees the fourth time then you are both on common ground. If he does not go for you, then find somebody else. High School guys are a dime a dozen.
2006-07-09 17:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by John Blix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the right thing. Sounds like a bad pattern for a relationship. Break out of that cycle for your own good. Better to be alone than with the 'wrong' person. I'm sure you have other friends that you can count on. Talk to them.
2006-07-09 17:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by curious one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!! This is certainly not the right thing. This guy finds it fun to go out with you and if u think that's fun, then u can says yes for as long as u want. If u r serious, I would say no.
2006-07-09 17:48:45 · answer #6 · answered by K.P. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats dumb y would u keep saying yes if hes gonna keep dumping u obviously hes not gonna change! dont put urself in that position again just get away from him or take a long while off from being with him!
2006-07-09 17:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point its just a game for him. SO what you do is, next time you see the guy DUMP HIM. That will show him.
2006-07-09 17:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by jprofitt303 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never date anyone after the first time I am dumped.
2006-07-09 17:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not kool at all!! Im pretty sure youre beautiful and can get a more mature good looking guy. I've seen this before guys play games with their freinds to see how long they can keep this up and do it to you cruel but thats what boys do
2006-07-09 17:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Divine Diva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋