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He is hounding me, always calling saying he misses me, loves me, etc.

Is he being sincere (really realizing how important I am) or is he just doing this to get me back???

Im 21, he is 25

2006-07-09 17:31:41 · 11 answers · asked by Mixed♥Beauty 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

11 answers

i know from personal experience, that you really don't realize what you've got, until you no longer have it anymore. he also probably is in love with you more now, than he ever did. after i 'left' my gf, it took a while, but i realized all of the sudden...that there is no one else out there that i can care for as much as i do for her. believe me, he's not crazy, he just realized how much he loves something he might have taken for granted before.

2006-07-09 17:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

He's bored, probably.

He's probably been with a lot of new girls (or hardly any) and now realizes that he lost something special.

Either way, it ended once for a reason, and it would probably end again if you tried reconciling it now.

Move on, and tell him to get a life!

2006-07-10 00:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0 0

it's like the old song says,
you don't know what you've got till its gone.
or a case of the jealousy's
if i cant have her no one can

i don't know much about the situation from your question but here is my advice. you are so young, get to know and date many different types of people and if your relationship with him is meant to be it will rekindle itself without him hounding you like a dog.

take care and be safe

2006-07-10 00:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by imma 2 · 0 0

He probably realizes he needs you, and that if an error was made, it was done on his part. You have the ace of cards on this one. He's at your mercy. You can be the nice one and take him back, or just dismiss the whole thing.

2006-07-10 00:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by SlothMachine 2 · 0 0

Because it is human nature to want what you cannot have. Even if he doesn't really want you, he certainly doesn't want someone else having you! 3 years is plenty of time to decide you care about someone and show it. I wouldn't go back to him.

2006-07-10 00:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by BB 5 · 0 0

He probably can't accept the fact that you moved on. Ignore him, eventually he will get the point.

2006-07-10 00:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0 0

sounds like he is suffering from " dont know whacha you got til its gone"

Ignore him for a while

When you know for a fact he is sincere... CONSIDER taking him back... but youre under no obligation...

2006-07-10 00:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 0 0

I know this sounds corny, but it's true. Sometimes people don't realize what they had until they don't have it anymore.

2006-07-10 00:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by flamingo_sandy 6 · 0 0

He sees you have moved on, and he really hasn't.

How do you plan on responding to it?

2006-07-10 00:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by blueskies7890 3 · 0 0

Jealous of something
Are you messing with somone else?
If he cant have you no one will

2006-07-10 00:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by Makaveli 2 · 0 0

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