Ok I have a boyfriend he is really nice and I really do love him but we have been going out since may 17 and the only thing we have done is hold hands and I want to do more so how do you get a guy to kiss you or do stuff like that or what are you subpost to say to him to give him a hint! I NEED A AWSEWR PLEASE!!
2006-07-09 17:30:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first don't be the one to force it.. if he really
loves you, then he will have to show it thru love letters roses etc.. if you feel that he has other gf or anything and he really don't show that much care for you, then tell him staright to his face if he likes you or not... be independent! girl..
2006-07-09 17:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by jun_matsumoto_gokus3n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is shy? Why not kiss him? If you don't want to do that just be honest but in a sweet way. Look him in the eyes and tell him that you really would like a kiss. If you are too shy for that but still want to let him know then write a letter. Nothing too heavy or serious. As for the other "stuff"...take it slow. Why rush? If this is a special relationship for you then just let things happen in their own time. If this isn't a special relationship...then why bother with the "stuff" at all? Best of luck to you! :)
2006-07-09 17:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by silent.peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell him, but maybe he wants to go slow. He may not want to have sex until he is married, and he knows too much kissing and stuff can lead to sex.
You should be thankful that he is going slow. Although I know, a little bit more activity could be nice. Just talk to him about it, ok? But if he doesn't want to go further right now, do respect him. Hope this helps.
2006-07-09 17:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you want it, make the first move. If he's really not getting it about what you want to do, show him. Be coy and kiss him, or be bold and climb into his lap first. I'm sure that will get things moving along and help him get over any shyness. Talk about it with him. About how you both feel, and what you want from your relationship physically.
2006-07-09 17:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Joel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, Make the first move, lean in for the kiss, he either isn't sure what you want or he's nervous on his own, worst case scenario-he tells you no-most likely-a make-out session!
2006-07-09 17:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by ghostchaser.christy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all be thankful he hasnt try to get in your pants .. at least you know thats not all he wants from you. try kissing him on the cheek and see if he responds. dont rush or push things he will kiss you when he is ready.
2006-07-09 17:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a guy. We like to be told straight up. Males aren't mind readers like females. Life is already stressful to be trying to read someone's mind. Tell him how far you want to take it. If it's foreplay but no sex. Whatever, be specific, into how far you want to take it.
2006-07-09 17:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get after it tell him you want to be intamate with him and that he is the greatest thing in the world just make shure thats what you want and if you gatta lay on a little icing on the cake go ahead remember girls lie too lol
2006-07-09 17:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by lismo2121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
straight up kiss him and kind of set the mood and try to start nibbling on his ear or something find out what his reaction is and go from there
2006-07-09 17:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by kiko's lil mija porvida 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be waiting for you to make a move.
2006-07-09 17:34:56 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica21_95 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋