2006-07-09 17:20:48 · 28 answers · asked by jamie w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because women are crazy! They prefer the guys that treat them like crap because "nice" guys are boring.
2006-07-09 17:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a complicated answer.
Girls want nice guys when there about 12 and 13, then from about 14 till the feel the need to have kids and a family. They want the Fun ,and or bad guy with the heart of Gold.
But in all and all Girls want to Marry and have Kids with the Nice Guy. But they want to try to tame the Wild Boys Frist... They when they can't they go to the nice guys....
And then they have Little Emo Kids...
2006-07-10 00:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by brian h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll assume your question has to do with the proven fact that, for some obscure reason, women seem to be more attracted to the "bad guys" than to nice ones. No one, to my knowledge knows the reason for this. One theory holds it that women are somewhat attracted by the excitement of being in the company of a male whose behavior is unpredictable and, to some point, dangerous. I do not condone violence against anyone, but it has been my experience (believe me, I am old enough to know) that it is counterproductive to treat a woman too nicely. Women have a tendency to misinterpret this as a sign of weakness and a lack of manhood.
2006-07-10 00:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by Pavi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While tryng to decide, consider first that ALL guys, if you were to ask them, would consider themself as a nice guy. If you have been recently rejected by a girl that you adored very much and she chose another guy, that other guy (I can assure you) thinks of himself as a nice guy. And he probably thinks he's even better than that. That's the problem when trying to figure out life complexities like this. You see someone else benefiting from something that you know you should have, and you think they're scum, yet...why did they prevail? Don't bother figuring it out. Go on to the next chapter in life, the next test question, because God (if you're religious) grades on a curve.
2006-07-10 00:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a lot of girls are still attracted to bad boys, and getting a nice guy to behave is not a challenge as is taming a bad boy.
Just wait until we get burned a few times by bad boys, then we'll look for a nice guy.
2006-07-10 00:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by BB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women like a challenge and a project. They like to "fix" guys, and they also, like all humans, are attracted to what they think they can't have. So, a guy who's a jerk and who ignores them is doubly attractive!
The thinking goes sort of like this: "I know he cheated on his last three girlfriends. I know I can totally get him to stop... I'll make him so happy he'll never want to cheat... if he'd just return my phone call."
There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy - seriously - but you have to understand what game you're playing and then play that game. In the game of dating, the men who really win are guys who are uninterested, unavailable, and unreachable. If you want to win, those are three things you pretty much have to be.
2006-07-10 00:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by jackmack65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not true. i actually think its nice girls that finish last, personally.
some nice guys finish last because they dont have the guts to go for what they want.
2006-07-10 00:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by kari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience it’s because someone who calls themselves a “nice guy” is actually often a meek guy and sometimes a complete pushover. If you like someone and will do anything for them (the typical nice guy) they’ll let you do everything for them. Why not? I’ve met “nice girls” who wanted to do a lot of nice things for me over and over again. It was their choice to do that, and I’d find myself basically pushing them around and getting them to do things they didn’t want to without even knowing/trying. I never wanted to turn people like that away like I was to good, but at the same time I’m not going to pick them up and carry them away like some romance novel unless I like them back.
Everyone likes someone who is kind, but don’t confuse kindness for weakness.
2006-07-10 00:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women want a nice guy who will treat them like they deserve. When you least expect love,it will happen,and you will be the womans world.
2006-07-10 00:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may appear to be the case at first glance. But come back in a year or two and I'll be the roles have changed.
2006-07-10 00:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋