Do you women get approached?

Question

This is so weird...

almost all women i've known have claimed to never get approached in public or very rarely (all very attractive) and meeting people thru only friends and acquintances. But then, here you see some women claiming they get approached all the time, all day long. And then others who complain why men are pvssies and won't approach, then others who beg why won't men stop approaching them.

Where is the truth. How often do YOU personally get approached?

And define what "approach" means to you.

How OFTEN, do you get approached? That is the question ;)

The most beatifull women i know have been most never ever been approached directly (without an excuse)... are you guys counting guys asking you for the time or something?

How OFTEN, do you get approached? That is the question ;)

The most beatifull women i know have been most never ever been approached directly (without an excuse)... are you guys counting guys asking you for the time or something?

I'm a man... I want NUMBERS :)

Be specific :)

Answer 1

A lot of guys will just stare. Usually smile. They are obviously interested but probably shy or intimidated. It is hard to approach someone like that. The only time words actually get out of their mouths is when there is some sort of "in" for them...like a reason to talk to me.

To me...approach means....do more than just stare. Even a hello or something to see if I react positively, then start a conversation.

Now....that's in public. At work....I see a lot of traffic. Mostly construction workers & some Engineers. They are already talking to me so they must feel more comfortable. I get asked to dinner or lunch a few times a week there. But mostly from guys I am not even close to interested in. I got myself a ring to wear on my ring finger to discourage them.

Answer 2

I've never walked up to a woman to strike up a conversation, and I've always had girlfriends. It's just too difficult, and you can see the answers on your last question of how men get treated when they fumble it all up and say something silly. One thing to remember, is that if a guy is charming, he has probably had a lot of practice(you're not the first). I see a lot of guys that I knew were lying about themselves and the women were all over them. I think to myself, "Why lie, and why not actually do something worth bragging about"... but then you see 10 women talking to him and then I know why they do it. As far as women approaching me, I've had numerous, and even at work. Most were married though and I had to say no... so I don't really know the answer to this question. A few years ago, my friend's wife told me that I'm the type of guy that women sleep with, but don't marry. I really haven't completely made sense of what she meant, as I've never done any girlfriends wrong. But, again, to answer your question: I've never really gone up to a woman to start a conversation, but have talked to quite a few that were near me. I guess I just have the mentality that no woman has beer flavored nipples or anything.

Answer 3

i've been approached many times. some just come up to me and ask me out. i look young for my age so i've gotten many 17 y/o's asking me out. mostly guys just stare because they see my wedding ring.

Answer 4

i dient read this i just wanted the points