My friend has me hang out with her and her bf and a friend of hers that goes to our school and Ive liked him for a long time. Well one night we were just hanging out the four of us and him and I started making out and started to get a little hot and sweaty but I stopped before we went all the way I'm just asking if i should sleep with him or not because we talk every now and than but on my side i dont think it would matter if we do it just as friends but i would also like your opinions to just let me get your side of what im saying cause im suppose to go and hang out with everyone this week sometime and i want some opinions before we start doing what we did last time and maybe go all the way
2006-07-09 16:51:32 · 23 answers · asked by countrygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh hell girl go get u some who cares what anyone else thinks u like him n its not like u got to marry him or nothing or like u have to even date him u just go get u some n dont worry bout it but use protection
2006-07-09 16:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how old you are and how much experience you have. I think recreational sex is just fine. If you both know that's all it is going in, there's no harm in it. If your young sometimes its hard to keep your feelings from getting carried away from you and one of you might get hurt. If you are an older (almost adult) teen or a young adult and you already have some experience, just practice safe sex and make sure yuo know where each other stand before you start anything. I believe friends can have sex and still be freinds later.
2006-07-09 17:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only sleep with this guy if you love him and he loves you. Casual stuff that everyone is doing is getting out of hand. Everyone feels weird later on. Doing it as friends doesn't seem to work for anyone I know. And the stuff that's getting passed around is really bad. Think into the future before you do anything with this or any other guy.
2006-07-09 17:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Tamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with him! Sex is something special that should be reserved for marriage. Having casual sex with "just a friend" that won't mean anything is impossible. There are always emotional attachments, and you should wait to go all the way with someone you truly love and are in a committed marriage relationship with.
2006-07-09 16:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by daisy99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't really care if you look like a trashy girl that has sex with guys she's JUST FRIENDS with then yeah go ahead it sounds good...
It just isn't special if you don't love the person. I'm not saying wait until marriage at all, but honestly I don't feel as comfortable or sexy when it's with a random guy
2006-07-09 16:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by tdamroze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way sweetie.You sound way too young to "go all the way".With sex, a relationship changes.It gets complicated and serious.There are so many diseases and teen pregnancies.WAIT!!You have the rest of your life to do that.Right now,just enjoy being Friends and getting to know him.
2006-07-09 16:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn!!!! u shuldnt unless u realy want it so bad
still it aint a gud idea instead of goin all the way why dont u take it slow n easy u might upgrade tha situation n make it be smthin special not a friend thing
2006-07-09 17:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by aint I beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is totally up to you, but I can tell you from experience don't let him push you into it. If you are a virgin you can never get that back and if you are not ready you will regret it. Besides too many diseases and then you have to worry about getting pregnant
2006-07-09 17:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by bbt843 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl if u want some dat bad go get u some lol but ne he jus yo friend its gona ruin your friendship cause ya no ya don't like each other dat much n gurl do u want him going around tellin his homies dat he got u and u r easy 2 get he's gona make u sound like a hoe, so think bout it good
2006-07-09 17:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with him. Get to know him as a friend first! Sex isn't everything. Nowadays you have to watch out for Venereal Deceases. Be safe!
2006-07-09 16:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋