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Ok my last relationship didn't work out and I haven't had a boyfriend since. Should I just give up on love or should I play hard-to-get or should I stop worrying and wait for guys?? Thanks. Answers will be appreciated !!

2006-07-09 15:38:32 · 23 answers · asked by Pop_Star 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

23 answers

BE PATIENT. ALL IN GOOD TIME AND GOOD TIMING.
the world is too big to be lonely. good luck

2006-07-09 15:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

This is the answer everyone wants to know. At least us single folks. The answer is maybe. First, everyone needs to spend time single to really get a good feeling for who they are and what they want out of life. This is how you accumulate self-worth.

After all, you can't expect someone else to love you if you don't love yourself first. Being single isn't bad - it's a chance to make yourself a better person, independent of the needs of a partner. Do the things you want to do. Grow on your own. Write your own story. And when the time is right, you'll cross paths with someone else who was doing the same...

2006-07-09 22:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by www.ayntk.blogspot.com 4 · 1 0

UMMMM you have told us nothing. So it did not work out. How long did it last? How long has it been since you have had a boyfriend?

Best advice from what I can tell, is to just be yourself, and love will find you when it is ready. Finish school and worry about college...(YES MOMMMM!!) I am a mom. The boys will always be there, where as the chance to go to school is not.

2006-07-09 22:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by barbaradjt 5 · 0 0

I really doubt you'll be single forever. I don't think you should give up on love, but you shouldn't play "hard to get" either. Playing anything is a game. I firmly believe that honest communication is the only way to form true connections. Don't worry! One way or another, you're going to meet someone.

2006-07-09 22:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by Geo 2 · 0 0

I soon will turn 38, which means that I will have been a legal adult for 20 years. I still am not married, have had very few girlfriends, but I keep hitting on hot chicks I see in the grocery store everyday where I live here in SE Michigan. Maybe I will hit on you, and when I do, please say yes okay? Be more open to those who flirt with you - happiness comes in many shapes and sizes.

2006-07-09 22:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by Fun and Games 4 · 0 0

Relearn basic dating skills. You have probably forgotten how nice it feels to be pursued, you will be particularly vulnerable to womanizers who are skillful at making a woman feel good about herself--temporarily. Don't let your fear of being alone cloud your judgment. Making it own your own is a necessary prequisite for making it with a partner. You don't need a man to validate your sense of worthiness. Having a relationship can create as many problems as it solves. Appreciate those times in your life when you are without a relationship such as strengthening your friendship, furthering your career, finding your hidden talents or finding yourself.

2006-07-09 22:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by Ivy C 2 · 0 0

The best relationships happen when your not looking for them..... Stop worrying about it, go out with your friends... have fun and live your life and when you least expect it , wham-o , you'll meet someone... Plus it gives you a chance to get to know yourself.... You might be surprised.... I learned to really like me....... Good Luck sweetie.......

2006-07-09 22:47:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Just wait awhile, have fun with it, flirt alittle, love will come your way. What girl really wants to be tied down all the time. Stay young for awhile. Enjoy it.

2006-07-09 22:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by teresa l 2 · 0 0

Take a deep breath and relax. You sound young enough to have PLENTY of time to develop relationships, some of which will last long, at least one of which might lead to marriage. God Bless you.

2006-07-09 22:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

no dont give up on love!! if u really want to be in a relationship then go for it dont sit around and wait for some guy to show up if u want something go after it ! be daring!!

2006-07-09 22:48:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Go out and join some groups or clubs that are of interest to you.
You will meet lot's of guys with the same interests as you.

2006-07-09 22:44:11 · answer #11 · answered by old man 4 · 0 0

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