We broke up a lil over 3 months ago, a few days after our breakup she was hanging out with this guy she worked with (who now is her bf) about every other night. Well to get to the point I was trying to work things out with her and she totally was not having it. Leading up to the time of our breakup there was a lot of stress on me from my health condition, and my job etc, she used that against me making me feel like I was the total cause of our breakup. When I finally got through to her she told me that she still loved me but not the way she used to, we agreed to be friends. the problem that I am having is it all seemed like a bunch of bullshit, she never calls me, when I call her she completely blows me off, I don't want to be an *** to her but she is really driving me nutz, not to mention I still love her and baddly want her back. The bad thing is I broke all the breakup rules and think that is part of my problem. I would like to know if and how I can fix this, why shes this way to me
2006-07-09 15:36:52 · 15 answers · asked by hLpme30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you make it sound like your innocent and she just found a reason to leave you and be with someone else. You also make it seem like she doesn't want to be with you, but she care about you. Unless your leaving something out it seams like its over and she's moved on. But you say you did something but are not saying what, you either did something or your making up excuses for her not wanting to be with you.
2006-07-09 15:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. She was planning this long before she broke with you. Using your health and your job was just the excuses she needed to get out of the relationship with you and on to the next one. The fact that she got into another one so quickly should tell you that she had no respect for you to begin with. Do you really want to get back with someone who has no respect for you?????? (your answer should be no!!!!) I know it hurts, and that you will never feel for another woman the way you felt for her, but you need to move on and learn whatever you can from this experience.
2006-07-09 15:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by poppi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty simple, she's blowing you off for the other guy and isn't really interested in being friends with you. She said that to ease the pain of the break up. You are better off just letting the wounds heal and then moving on to find another girl when you're ready.
2006-07-09 15:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand this all to well. One thing you need to do is back off. If you two are ment to be with each other then you will. One thing is dont call her for a while and find other things to do to keep your mind out of what she is doing. Women like to have men wanting them but when they act like they dont then they end up calling more. Like i said i have done this before with someone that I care for. Just take the time to enjoy life and just try to back off and just see what happens.
2006-07-09 15:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may still be hurt from the breakup, Girls have INCREDIBLY complex minds (no offense ladies) and you have no idea if she liked you INCREDIBLY, maybe you changed and she didn't like it, and thought you were treating her differently. Not saying you were, but maybe their was a change in you. All i can say is to get her back you are going to need a movie moment romantic moment thing. she doesn't talk to you on the phone go to her house with roses beg for her back (but keep your dignity) You only have one life man live it to the fullest. If you love her then god #$%@# YOU GOTTA GET HER BACK!!!
2006-07-09 15:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Friend, let`s be honest....in this case she doesn`t love you anymore. All you can do try to accept this situation with big heart. It`s hurt I know but much better to end it up now than too late. No matter how hard You try to fix it up but Her heart not for you anymore, will not working.
We can not forced someone to love us, so when we found the reality, be strong and moving on. You`ll find a better person soon
2006-07-09 15:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
regularly it takes years and years of alchohol abuse to die from one of those reason. My ex mom in regulation is a finished alchoholic, beverages captain morgans rum each and every morning, afternoon, and nighttime, and he or she remains ticking. An 18 365 days previous ought to no longer probably have had time to drink adequate to die of liver failure strictly from ingesting. i'd say there is maximum in all probability another underlying reason. and obviously it isn't his fault. Im positive he's dissatisfied, yet ... it truly is his *ex* female friend, and in the journey that they were only together some weeks, it does no longer sound all that severe. he receives over it in time.
2016-11-30 23:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on to someone better. I was divorced less than six months and found out my ex was allready getting married. Everybody knows that she is just on the rebound and it wont last. Same goes for you. When somebody starts dating that fast, it wont last. Just sit back and wait for your chance to point your finger and laugh. That is the only revenge you should take.
2006-07-09 15:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by dbelyew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey but she doesn't love you anymore that's why she treats you that way. Don't keep trying to get her back you deserve better go find it.....
2006-07-09 15:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a surpise kiss infront of the bf so he think she cheating and break up with her then say im sorry give her flowers candy it harsh but it will work
2006-07-09 15:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by tyrique o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋