Just pour your heart out and explain.
2006-07-09 15:30:56 · 37 answers · asked by RadiantGal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's no real way to explain love, so to figure out what it was and how it felt was hard. I just waited around for the right person to come along. And when he did (which was a year ago), it was the best feeling in the world. I couldn't get him off my mind, and everytime I thought about him, the biggest smile would appear on my face. People would look at me and be like "What the hell is so funny?" Gradually over time, I gained a comfort around him. I wasn't afraid that he'd jump out of bed screaming because he realized the girl who wore makeup last night isn't wearing makeup in the morning. He thought I was beautiful no matter what..makeup or no makeup. That's the best feeling in the world; to have someone love you for who you truly are. It's a blessing to have found someone like that. The best thing though, is sharing those "inside jokes". Being able to laugh and joke and watch the people around you look at you like you're crazy because only the two of you know what's REALLY going on. Love is a beautiful thing, even though there are going to be bumps in the road. Those bumps help mold your relationship and makes the bond that much stronger. That bond will last forever.
2006-07-09 15:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Elation.
Until we broke up... then I felt like a complete fool. But it goes that way sometimes. The first times were all very short-lived for me. It isn't that way for everyone.
Now, I'm much older and when I fall in love, it's a very warm feeling that wraps around you -- you know someone really cares about you. It's different than hormones and the compulsion to have mad, uncontrollable sex. (To be blunt). But that can happen too...
Most all the other comments I've read here are all also true. Many different emotions come into play and many different things can happen. But usually you know it when it finally happens, it's unlike anything else you've experienced before.
2006-07-09 15:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by kevrob8008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw her sitting in a chair with a stack of papers in her lap. I was walking up a hallway at my school. She looked up and smiled and it felt like getting hit in the back of the head with a hammer. My heart dropped through the floor and I knew I would never be the same. It was as if my whole life had been preparation for this one moment in time and I knew I had to make her part of my life and be part of hers. Every day after that I loved her more. We were both already in committed relationships, so we became platonic friends. After two marriages, three divorces, and four children we are finally together as a couple. We are every bit as in love now as ever and we met in 1984.
2006-07-09 16:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by gwydiontinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...when I finally realized that I did love him, I also realized that I had loved him for a long time. I don't know why it took me so long to get it. He was deployed at the time, but we had known each other for a while, and the feeling isn't easy to describe. I cared about him so much and knew I would do anything for him. He was truly a wonderful person who gave me butterflies every time I heard his voice. It felt really good, and I was so happy, but also scared. It was all a bit overwhelming to have all these feelings hit you at once...but I wouldn't trade it for anything. Now...I'm just really happy to share my life with this amazing man...who still gives me butterflies every day.
2006-07-09 15:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened not to long ago so I can answer easily. Like I had a wire attached to my heart and it was being pulled into my stomach.And you can never figure it out the first time. I couldn't.Sometimes you can't stand the sound of his voice, other times you want to grab him and kiss him. I never cry outside of the family, but when i thought of him, I did.
2006-07-09 15:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by Reality Check 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An incredible feeling of attachment. I wanted to be with her every minute of the day. I was totally delirious and crazy in love! Still am in love with the same woman today--just less hormonal than it was so many years ago.
2006-07-09 15:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kind of obsessive if i'm honest! I wasnt looking for love so when it hit me it was like a wirl-wind of emotions...i've never cried so much! Both good and bad! He was/is always on my mind and I can't remember what life was like before him and can't imagine being with anyone else....really hard to explain now I'm writing it down! Erm i'm pretty big on music so 'Have you ever?' by Brandy kind of explains it better than I ever could :-p
2006-07-09 15:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I will be the turd in the punchbowl. Im 26 years old , worked all my life and have never been in love. Hows that for a kick in the head?
2006-07-09 15:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by wrench'n away 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was in younger i seen this girl in a cafeteria and i had this weird feeling that i couldnt explain. i knew it wasn't having to do with her being pretty because then she was kind of a nerd then after that i had a class with her and i got to know her . wen i was with her i always felt like i didnt deserve her because she was so perfect (she turned pretty after 1 summer) i alwasy missed her and wanted to be with her and then she moved to new jersey and i was so heart broken i couldnt take it it took me a wehil to get over her
2006-07-09 15:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by Kamaliez T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like a dump truck had rolled its way into my stomach and exploded.
That was the day I discovered chorizo. I have been in love with spicy mexican sausage ever since.
2006-07-09 15:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by www.ayntk.blogspot.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋