this girl and i really like eachother but i'm afraid to ask her out because if we brake up it might hurt our friendship. next year shes going to a diffrent school and thats the last thing i want to do. if we did break up, would it really hurt our friendship?
2006-07-09 15:25:12 · 14 answers · asked by goyankees1214 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
God, that's a toughie. Obvioulsy, nobody wants a broken heart, but that doesn't always have to be the case if there is a break up. After my ex-fiance and I split up, we were lucky and are in a lot of ways closer and better friends now. Of course, that was a lucky break. I'm sure the friendship would take a huge hit if you break up, but then nothing ventured, nothing gained. It sounds like you both really like each other, so I say go for it and hope for the best. I'll be rooting for you!! :)
2006-07-09 15:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by starikotasukinomiko 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it can be tough to be friends after a breakup, especially depending on the reason was for the romantic relationship ending. It's not impossible though, and a fair number of people manage to keep or create good friendships with their "exs". Often though, it'll take some time apart for one or both to heal a bit, before being around one another...when the breakup is fresh, its tough to be around your ex without memories of the relationship and the emotions of the good times, or sadness over the end, getting in the way of trying to forge or rekindle something on a friendship-only level.
Like most things, it's a risk you'll have to decide whether or not to take...
2006-07-09 15:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of ways to break up. If you break up together as adults then I dont see any reason that you cant stay friends. ANd by adult I mean talking about why you two cant be in a relationship, and you both agree that just being friends is the best thing. Breaking up cause of others and cause of arguing is were I would have to say no you wouldnt be friends.
2006-07-09 15:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on the area. Your "friendship" is completely not an same when you had dated and it went bitter. yet from time to time, once you get over the initial "marvel" of the wreck-up, you'll proceed to keep in touch with the fellow. I nonetheless communicate with my former better 0.5, and we've been divorced for over 6 years. we do not "dangle out" or something, yet when I had an emergency, and my husband become unavailable, my ex may be the first individual i'd ask for help - and that i understand he would drop each and every thing to come back and help me; he had finished it earlier. If this what friendship is, then we are acquaintances i wager.
2016-10-14 07:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what I find works a lot for some: not all. Is that you make your relationship more Friendish. Not so loveish. Sure kiss and hold hands. But talk like best friends, act like best friends, be best friends before lovers. It'll be hard to just up and leave that.
2006-07-09 15:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by ~Elle~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think your totally off track. If your truly friends then it shouldn't be no problem. you really didn't explain why you felt you couldn't still be with her just cause she's going to another school. But again do what's best for you always.
2006-07-09 15:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by Blessed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hasn't been for me. There's only one x that I'm not currently friends with.
If you have a solid friendship to start with it shouldn't be problem.
2006-07-09 15:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by dannyl410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think what's more important for you, anyway if you start a relationship will be the moment to break up, and... sometimes we regret to haven't been enough brave. My advise.... ask her... love her, while you can.
2006-07-09 15:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by Houston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope!, I can call every X-girl that I can get a hold of and we are all cool.It all depends on how you handle things.
2006-07-09 15:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by "THE BEAST" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah id say so,i mean me and this girl were talkin about goin out for a while 7 weeks later shes all tellin me it wont work,and thats cause she wanted to go out wit a guy she met on a cruise a yr ago,and basically he came to visit her,so yeah im nvr talkin to her again,but its up to u wat u do
2006-07-09 15:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by Gollum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋