hey i want to have sex and have come close to it a couple of times but i am scared that it will hurt to bad!!!! help me!!!! what dose it feel like the first time you have sex? how bad dose it hurt?
2006-07-09 15:09:48 · 5 answers · asked by butterflykisses01247 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and i am not going to go out and have sex write now i just wanted to no because chance's have come up and i no i am not raedy at this point in time but i wanted no because i was dating a guy i was in love in and yes i still love him and he toke it the wrong way when he over heard me telling my friend that i was afraid to have sex but anyways i just want to no for futer resons thank's
2006-07-09 15:28:52 · update #1
It doesn't really hurt the first time. It's a little awkward when the guy first enters you. It feels tight, like a little pinch. But after he's been moving in and out a couple of times, it feels SOOO good. Just relax and don't be afraid to let him know if you're uncomfortable. It might help for you to guide him inside you when he first enters.
2006-07-09 15:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by MEB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're scared, you're not ready to have sex.
From the spelling in your question; you should be studying, anyway.
At the very least, be studying ABOUT sex, love, commitment, STDs, contraception, etc. You have YEARS ahead of you , waiting a few years while you grow more mature, isn't going to kill you.
2006-07-09 22:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by madamspinner2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt and you don't sound ready. Just wait, when it's time it'll just happen! You've got the rest of your life!
2006-07-09 22:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by angelpockets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it until you are sure you are ready,. It will hurt the first time.
2006-07-09 22:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means you are not ready that thing called virginity its your most treasured possession , its a one time shot once its gone its gone , take care of that treasure put it under lock and key wait until you are married share that treasure with him trust me honey you will thank me later ............
2006-07-09 22:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by E.M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋