what do guys look for in girls? whats the 1st thing you look for in a woman?

Question

I want to know this because i see that most of the guys care about the girls phisycal appeareance. i am not skinny and all the guys reject me because of that i wish they got to know me better before they judge me or just look at me as ugly.

Answer 1

Sadly, in life, for most of us, looks matter. Looks are not the foundation for a long-lasting relationship, however. It takes a lot more than physical attraction to sustain a relationship...so it is typically better anyway to rely on those charms that exist below the surface. Personality counts. Confidence. A sense of self-worth. A sense of humor.

I've dated plenty of beautiful women, many of whom left a lot to be desired in the personality department. Turned out most of them were pretty shallow because they'd come to rely on their looks to get the things they want. Now, the rare beauty who blossoms late and has a beautiful personality to match - she's the true catch we're all looking for.

Answer 2

Look, first of all, weight is more important than ugly. It is. If I see a sorta ugly girl with a rockin body, in shape, fit and trim, that's something I can deal with. But a semi pretty girl who's a pig, no way.

You have to understand, weight says you don't take care of yourself, you don't have discipline, you're not healthy. People do not want to be around people who are in a state of decay.

So don't worry about your face. Get on a diet, limit you carloies to 1200 a day, excercise off between 200-500 calories every other day, you WILL lose weight.

Nothing attracts a guy more than a girl trying to make herself better. Good luck!

Answer 3

too a lot makeup is a turnoff. not as huge as a females smoking although... Too skinny's also on the record, yet you already know, being fantastically is all about the "equipment". i do not have certain criteria. a woman is stunning or not. And that incorporates personality, certain. The definition of proper is subjective, and any guy would have any answer. women, you're proper.

Answer 4

Well the very first thing anyone looks for (male or female) is obviously physical appearance, since you really can't tell anything else about a person until you know them better.

Answer 5

no no no the thing that I look for in a woman (I am way past the girl stage) is a stable future ie job car and bank account because I have all those and I don't want to support someone

Answer 6

I look for a good body and a good personality. A good body to me is not too big or too skinny. I don't go for extremes.

Answer 7

You can do some simple things to make yourself look better.
Go to the gym, stop eating as much, eat smart, no sugars, no carbs, no pasta's, no bread.

All these things will help alot to make you more confident in yourself to others.

Dress to impress.

Answer 8

Intelligence and education are a big part along with personality and looks.

Answer 9

Unfortunately that is usually true. Physical attraction comes before everything else.

Answer 10

bodys the bait, and the personality keeps him there