ONLY guys please answer me?

Question

When I have sex with my bf I want him to scream, but all he does is uuuuuuuu dam he doesn’t say a word? I want him to say I love u are the best and all that good stuff??? But is that all guys

Answer 1

Some people like to be more quiet than others. I would refrain from telling him DURING sex that you want him to be more vocal, because, frankly, that will come off like nagging.

Guys like to be talked to straight up and have expectations laid out there. So... on a kick back eve or sometime when you guys are out talking and the moment is right, bring up ho much you like sleeping with him. Then ask him if there is anything he would like you to do that you are not doing for him. The conversation will naturally lead to him asking is thee anything he can do for you (if he is any kind of a decent guy, anyway). Then tell him how much you enjoy when he says things while you make love, and give him specific examples of what you would like him to say more. You can say, "it gets me so hot when you say xxx, it would be great if you say more stuff like that" (put this in your own lingo of course, but you get the idea.

Good luck.

Remeber, us guys are kinda slow in the head about stuff like this, so you really have to spell it out for us.

Answer 2

Tell him that you want him to talk dirty to you, add some vocal emotion to it. Most guys are quiet and like to hear the girl make sounds. But he should like to join and put you over the top. If he dont you might have to encurage him some. If he still dont after 3 or 4 times move on....Good Luck and Have Fun

Answer 3

Talking during sex is an aquired skill, most boys do not like to even try.It is a prefference issue, but most men eventually get around to it. I can do it in two languages, I enjoy it now, but when I was under 30, I didn't care for it. Hence, to me Boys are males under 25 years of age.

Answer 4

I didn't know women wanted a conversation during sex. Maybe you should start the conversation. I always talk about the weather when I have nothing else to talk about, but "I love you" during sex might be a good ice breaker too.

Answer 5

Have you told him this bit of info, or are you waiting for him to read your mind?

Communication is just as important in sex and relationships as physical attraction, so you have to talk to him and let him know what you want and need in bed, before you even get into bed.
Otherwise, he might be to distracted to pay attention to any deep talking, while deep humping. Sorry, that was a poor excuse for doggerel.

Answer 6

Why don't you let him know instead? Knowing that every other guy in the world is romantic in bed or goes "uuuu" isn't going to help your relationship with your boyfriend. Letting him know may or may not make sex better (in the worst case scenario, there are other fishes in the sea).

For the record, not all guys are like that.

Answer 7

Haha, straight guys don't scream in bed. They don't want to be called "Feminine". They also don't want the woman to be the "man" role during sex, so they "keep it cool" and act all dominate. Psh, I'd rather have my boyfriend screaming too, but he's "too good for that". ...(What a jackass).

Answer 8

Personally, I like a bit of talking while I'm at it. But the end result is different every guy. The last thing you're thinking about is what you're gonna sound like.

Answer 9

Just because he doen't make much noise during love making does not mean he does not enjoy it!! If you want him to be talkative during sex then you need to tell him. It is as simple as that.

Answer 10

First of all, we 'guys' are trainable. TELL US WHAT YOU WANT US TO DO. We'll either get it & do it, or you can feel comfortable moving on. Telling your friends or random strangers what you want him to do will NOT CHANGE HIS BEHAVIOR. Oh, and in general, WE DON'T GET HINTS. Be obvious about what you want and you'll get it. Be subtle about what you want and be forever confused because you're boyfriend 'doesn't get you.'

:)