I'm 18.I really like my boyfriend alot. We've been going out for about 7 months. My dude is so attractive, everytime I see him I bascially want to jump right on him. We only had sex one time.Every single time I talk to him we always end up talking about sex after the first 15 mins of talking. He's says that I'am a freak, but dont you men like your women like that?
2006-07-09 14:06:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
If a guy tells you that you are a freak, it isn't really a compliment. I think he is trying to tell you to turn the burner down and let your relationship simmer a bit. Try finding something more interesting to talk about than sex. What a lot of girls don't realize is that men do have brains and they have much more in their thoughts than just sex. If you've only had sex once in 7 months, he isn't all that interested in you.
2006-07-09 14:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've noticed that a lot of people, these days, are sexualizing their feelings. Believe it or not, sex can become addictive, just like a drug. The reason cocaine is so powerful is that it stimulates the same pleasure center in the brain as orgasm.
You say all you talk about is sex. You say he says you are a freak. Put the shoe on the other foot. If every time he saw you all he did was talk about sex, you would think he was only interested in your body. Maybe HE feels like an object.
Sex is about mutual pleasure and intimacy. What you are talking about is using someone elses body as a masturbation tool. There is a big difference. Maybe he wants to experience you as a person.
You might want to see a counselor about your obsession with sex. It is not healthy and can lead to all kinds of unpleasant consequences such as unwanted pregnancy, std's, AIDS, Hepatitis C, and a host of emotional and self-esteem problems.
2006-07-09 21:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just doesn't know how good he has it. I love having sex and freaks are the best lay ever. I always end-up talking sex when I have a conversation with a female.
2006-07-09 21:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by 3holepunch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A GUY has a problem with talking about sex? You've had sex ONCE in seven months? This guy is either gay or an alien! Move on, sister! Plenty of guys would love to get freaky with you!
2006-07-09 21:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by Janet K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might very well have decided that you want him only for sex. I would have determined that if you only go 15 minutes without talking about it. If he does think this, it is quite natural for him to shy away from wanting it. If you want a stronger relationship, I'd discuss it with him.
2006-07-09 22:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, just wanted to let you know my ex-husband was just like this before we got married... we didn't have sex a lot... but i thought about it a lot... and i asked a lot... sometimes he would just give in. sex lasted about 3 minutes (which i took as me being so hot that he couldn't control it... LOL). things didn't change when we married... we had sex maybe once ever couple of weeks. we were married for 7 years and had 2 kids together before i figured out what the problem was. i caught him in bed with another man. i was DEVISTATED beyond belief! but i guess that explains a lot looking back. i just wanted to open your eyes in advance to the POSSIBILITY... i'm not saying that your man is gay or bi-sexual... just saying... keep both eyes open. this situation is hard for me AND our children! i just wish he had told me himself... BUT, i have two great kids and after our divorce i met a FABULOUS straight guy and married him :) HAPPILY EVER AFTER (LOL)
2006-07-09 23:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by JayneDoe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought my man and I would hump like rabbits all the time....well 3 kids later, Im lucky if I get it once a month...he use to say the same thing to me...Hopefully it doesnt die like mine did lol
2006-07-09 21:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny you mention that, sounds likle my fiance.....the first time we had sex (and my first time ---virgin till then) was so great i wanted it all the time...well he said he always thought he'd want a gilr like that, but it gets to be a handful...so just try to cool it with him and be seductive in other ways to turn him on so maybe he'll jump you instead!~
Guys are weird...never forget that!
2006-07-09 21:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you talk about sex all time that dosent mean ur a freak .just talk to me if u got problems and other stuff.
2006-07-09 22:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by joe j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just have a higher sex drive then him! Sex is not everything building a solid relationship is key!
2006-07-09 21:12:27 · answer #10 · answered by jibbers4204 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋