I'll be 15 in September..and I've never had a bf before..is there something wrong with me? I get told often that I'm pretty and I take care of myself. I have a good personality..I'm shy though..could that be why? All of my friends have had bfs before..just not me..
I've never even had my first kiss yet.. I'm going into 10th grade at a different school..maybe then?
But what should I do? Is there something wrong with me or am I not doing something?
Thanks
2006-07-09 13:52:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing wrong at all. You sound like a nice girl. But just realize this, alot of guys at this age are shallow, and are just looking for shallow whores and such to "have fun with". You don't sound appealing for that type of thing (which is good, trust me), and you just haven't found a nice guy yet that wants a good relationship actually. You will don't worry. Personality is the most important thing, and once guys get to know you, i'm sure you'll find someone rite for you.
2006-07-09 13:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by high heat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not you are very, very normal. Our society, including movies and television, portrays sexually active kids as the norm. Trust me, you are reality. There is nothing wrong with you. I'm sure you are a beautiful girl with tons of prospects just waiting for you to look their way. What makes it hard for girls is that we mature faster than the guys. So the guys you've been really good friends with are suddenly dorks that still want to do kid things. The guys that are hot and act in a way you find desirable are older and generally out of reach. You just need to be yourself and make sure that you expose yourself to as many activities you can. The more opportunities you seize to meet new people, the more chances you'll have for finding just the perfect guy. Since you are going to a new school, you should try to find out where everyone hangs out. Ask your mom to take you on a spy mission to see what everyone wears and how they act. Then when you show up, you'll fit right in. Good luck.
2006-07-09 21:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, I was my boyfriends first girlfriend and he was 15 also when we started to date, most people just jump into a relationship just to say that they are in one, or to have someone to tell them that they love them. Don't feel like you are different or something is wrong with you, you are simply waiting for the right person to come along, and so far no one has impressed you.
2006-07-09 20:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had my first relationship at nineteen. Nothing wrong with you. You will meet someone in due time. Right now there isn't anyone that's right for you. The girls that had boyfriends before me 2 got pregnant and the others complained of immature boys.
2006-07-09 20:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by lisa m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, just means your waiting for the right situation. It will come in due time so there is no need to force it. Nothing worse than having a fake relationship with an immature guy or worse some older guy who enjoys little girl. You have more than enough time for relationships.
2006-07-09 21:01:34 · answer #5 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey.. there is nothing wrong with you. Everybody takes their own time to come into things like bf's. I have one friend.. she's really popular, 17, superduper smart.. and a cheerleader. we're going to be seniors this year, and she's never had a bf yet. so everybody is different. take ur time and don't rush into things, u'll be glad u did.
2006-07-09 21:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by mystic_angel_1707 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sure there is nothing wrong with you. Maybe guys are intimidated by you or just havent realized your beauty yet. Keep trying! It WILL happen for you!!! Stay positive and just give it time. Good luck!! :-)
2006-07-09 20:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by Ex-Blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you and some guys are more shy than the girls, i would find someone and get to know them (of course a guy though) then ask him out and so on so forth
lots of luck
2006-07-09 20:58:25 · answer #8 · answered by KelseyKhaotic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing at all wrong w/ u.....I never dated in high school....until my jr prom.....and that was one date....with a friend.....after that, I didn't really date again until after I graduated and went to college......Don't rush it.......appreciate ur freedom while u can.......once u have a bf, everything is about him......
2006-07-09 20:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're focused on the wrong thing, concentrate on school, family and friends first, relationships will eventually come. Don't rush it, just let it happend. Prioritize!!!!!
2006-07-09 21:26:21 · answer #10 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋