i`m torn between to lovers what would you do?

Question

i love them both and when i`m with one i think of the other help what would you do and how?

Answer 1

hmmm... try imagine lover 1 no longer exists for one reason or another. Do you think you can be happy with lover 2? If yes, then #2 is yours. If no, try the other way around.

If that doesn't help, get lover #3 and see if you "love" all 3. If you do, then you are just horny and not "in love".

If you don't, then lover #1 and lover #2 each must have some qualities that if put together into 1 person would make your ideal lover. If this is the case, then neither lover #1 nor lover #2 are your destiny. They each have something, but not everything, so you still have to find the right one.

If the last is the case, I still wanna advice you to pick either #1 or #2 because if you continue, you will hurt the hell out of one of them or both of them. Also, lies have no place in between lovers.

Good luck!

Answer 2

This is 2006 not 1806 so who says you have to chose one or the other. tell them both about each other; tell them what you like about them andwhat each offer that the other does not.
Tell them you would like to continue seeing both, maybe suggest you have a threesome (although most guys would prefer two girls and one guy and not as in your case two guys and you).
but in all honesty why should you stick to one or the other?
the only thing wrong with your situation is it's not allegedly done in "normal society" it does not make what your doing wrong.

Just pick a good time and tell them about each other make it at the same time at the same place or the guys may think you like the one guy more than you like the other.

This is your life and you should live it how you want to. if the guys are up for sharing you then you have nothing to worry about. However you could lose one or the other from your life all together if you are not careful.

However if you are determined to do the so called nor and have just one, then you have to right down all the positives and negatives of being with each guy. the guy with the most pro's (good points) wins. so the guy with the fewest points gets kicked to friendship ville or to loser city. only you can decide what you want to do.
sorry but it comes down to good old communication when all said and done you have to talk to them about the situation, and they will make the choice with you or for you.
so good luck.

Answer 3

I would probably tell them both what was going on. The one who stays with you or supports your point of view without making an issue of it, will be the one who loves you the most.

Answer 4

Who's the kindest most generous lover ? Who treats you with the most respect and gives their feelings most genuinely?

Write down a list of "pro's and cons" for each. You'll soon have your answer. Just do it soon, you are playing with feelings!

Good Luck.

Answer 5

sounds like you're in too deep - you should ditch both and find some fresh meat

otherwise you've got to decide which one you want to keep and let the other one go as gently as you can

assuming you're not trying to get advice about how to broach the subject of a threesome, obviously......?

Answer 6

You have got to decide which one to be with or you will lose them both

Answer 7

Well your gonna have too be quick whatever you do before they find out about each other...........then you might lose both of them



oops someone already said that!

Answer 8

Just make sure you wash it between courses.

Answer 9

First, stay in school long enough to spell correctly.

Answer 10

You can only have one, so flip a coin