i really luv him, but i feel guilty, and scared to tell him, im afraid he'll push me away, but i luv him too much to potentially change my happiness cuz he wont except me.
2006-07-09 13:35:57 · 31 answers · asked by Mandi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 14 and he is 16, he thinks i am 15.
2006-07-12 10:08:29 · update #1
XXXXXXXXXXX tell him the truth about your age. If he is much older than you and you are a minor in this relationship he can go to jail for being with a minor. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-09 13:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My concern is, are you saying you age may cause him to do JAIL TIME??.. Never tell a lie that you will have to live with for the rest of your life about!! always give a person a choice to decide what they want.. Its not fair that you did the do step up as a woman and tell the truth, yes lies hurt but love will stand against all madness when you always keep it real...
2006-07-09 20:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres a good chance he may be upset, you should never lie about your age to someone. You should definately tell him about your age. As for his response, I don't know your age or his age. If your a teenager, age difference is a big deal and can even involve legal issues. If your in your 20s or older then it's just a matter of what stages you are in your life and how old/young someone considers to be too much.
2006-07-09 20:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you're under age i wouldn't worry about it, he loves you for you, but if gets you a birthday cake then quickly while he's not looking take a few candles off and say, actually i'm this old, then proceed to tell him he was obviously thinking about some other girl with a different age. this way you can correct the matter and hey, throw in a little guilt to boot. j/k of course lol
2006-07-09 20:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jessee J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him, Because one thing a guy doesn't like is a girl that lies. That will just make him not trust you at all. You should tell him the truth and if you really love him then always tell him the truth. If he really loves you then he'll understand the reason.
2006-07-09 20:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by jedm87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first- it's accept not except! second- why didnt you tell him how old you were from the start? third- yes it can cause problems in the relationship. fourth- that can cause trust issues, and he will think if you lied about you're age then what else did you lie about. and fifth- if he love you like he says he does you're age shouldnt matter. (unless you're like16 and he's 23)
2006-07-09 20:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by i love NOLA! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him you must confess your lie. Otherwise it's all crap.
If you are under 18 and he is over 18 you also must tell him so he can protect himself. You don't want him accused of being inappropriate with a minor.
2006-07-09 20:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, if your like under 18 and he's like over 25, then thats definately a problem, but if your like over 18, and he's over 25 its not that big a deal. But if you lied to him about your age, then it may be a problem, because if he knows you lied about that it will leave him wondering what else you may or may not have lied to him about, and it will make him wonder what else you may or may lie to him about in the future, and he will possibly never trust you again in the future.
2006-07-09 20:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by addybme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth will come out...
Why start a lie to begin with?
age is just a number... right?
2006-07-09 20:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AGREE #1 but also he loves u and u love him how come u cant be honest with eachother thats terrible. one of th first thing i ask are things about them. mabye u guys arnt ready to love one antoher if u cant be honest with ine another??? ever thought of that?? be honest that is all u can do now. good luck : )
2006-07-09 20:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by ~Irishgirl~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋