2006-07-09 13:27:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(1) Abort the baby - Obviously, it was a mistake. It takes two hands to clap and no one should be blamed when this happen. Learn from this mistake and make sure such things will not repeat again. And never get into a marriage just because of the baby. It will lead to more problems if the marriage did not work out in future (this advice was given based on your qn that "you have just met the guy").
(2) Tell him - You should not think you can handle abortion alone especially if pregnancy is out of wedlock or the girl's first time. Abortion can only be performed when the foetus is about 6 to 8 weeks old. So during this time, the mother's body will undergo hormonal changes that could affect your mood, appearance (for certain people) and morning sickness etc. You definitely need support from him and it is also a time to see if he is, afterall, a genuine to you.
How would the guy feels about this - And don't expect the guy will jump with joy when he learns about the pregnancy. I think he would most probably be panicked stricken for pregnancy is not planned for.
2006-07-09 14:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by PaperCloUDs 2 · 22⤊ 12⤋
I got pregnant by a guy I just started dating when I was 16 and I did have an abortion. He knew about it and agreed. I continued to date him and eventually we married. I would have had an adult son or daughter and possibly grandchildren from him or her. I regret the decision now.
2006-07-09 13:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u should tell him but that might be hard. If u feel like ur not ready for a baby then u should have an abortion.
2006-07-09 13:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I just met this guy, why would I be having sex with him????!
But okay, here's my answer: I do not believe in abortion. I would tell him, as he has every right to know about the upcoming birth of his child.
I'm sorry, but.. seriously, if you just met a guy, would you be having sex with him???!
2006-07-10 08:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by sassy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and the guy are better off probably with an abortion. The decision is entirely up to you however.
2006-07-10 06:16:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want the next girl he screws to be in the same situation? At the very least tell him so he remembers to carry rubbers if he insists on spreading his seed.
Having a kid is worth considering even if the father isn't in the picture. There are plenty of happy single mothers out there.
2006-07-09 13:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I could even if I did just meet the guy, Everything happens for a reason even stuff like that. Now, telling him would definitely be a difficult situation and I'm not sure about that one. I guess it would depend on the relationship we had if we even had one at all.
2006-07-09 13:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by nicholiroliolipoli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want the abortion go for it and don't let him know unless you plan on pursuin' a relationship with this guy.
2006-07-09 14:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to abort I wouldn't tell him what would be the point
2006-07-09 13:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by millie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy never knew about it, how would he have any feelings about it at all. All he knows is he got a good free lay, with nothing to worry about.
2006-07-09 13:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by meimmoody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would abort and not tell him
2006-07-09 13:31:50 · answer #11 · answered by unhappyinin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋