how often should i call my girlfriend while we are on break?

Question

me and my girlfriend have been going out for three months ,but went steady for two months most of the third month we have been on a break. Since its Summer vacation and i wouldn't see her much anyway it makes the break harder .If me and her stay together over the summer we'll probaly see each other once every week in a half . When we were going steady we talked almost everyday on the phone but it was me doing most of the calling. I could tell she enjoyed talking to me because we always talked for about two hours or more.But now that we're on break i dont know how much i should call her. She has called me about twice this week and i called her four times this week. The second time i called her she said her feelings grew for me but the third and fourth time it was just talking and it got me worried that maybe her feelings died down. I miss her and i want to go back to talking to her everyday since i wont see her anyway but i dont want to mess things up since we're on break

Answer 1

For one thing, you are still young, so relax...You have time enough for love.

My advise is to make it "quality" not "quantity" Limit the amount you call to once or twice a week. Actually plan ahead for the call my jotting down things you wanted to say, or topics you wanted to speak to her about (Family, Friends, Music, etc.) Make each call a special event, and then relax and live life between the calls.

One other thing you should look as is how often she calls you. It's no fun to be the only one in a relationship, trying to make things work. If she does not respond to your special calls, then it's sad, but you now know that you can move on and share yourself with others.

Value yourself, and others will value you as well!
Good luck!

Answer 2

you seem a little too young to be worried about this. From what I can tell, you both are still in school. Probably middle school. Am I right? Tell me, what is the point in having a "serious relationship" if you aren't old enough to spend time with each other? Why can't you see her more than once every week and a half? Seems a little pointless to me. And also, if you both truly loved and cared for one another, you wouldn't need to take "breaks" from your relationship. People who do that don't really want to be with that person. People who claim that they need "breaks" from someone else only see that person as there "comfort zone". they only want to be with the person when they see fit. Meaning: they run back to that person when they aren't getting the attention they want from someone else because they know you'll be there. The only reason she's telling you that her feelings are getting stronger is because she's not getting the attention she wants from someone else. If she suddenly stopped talking about it, then she's probably found someone else to talk to. If I were you, I would take myself out of that situation as soon as possible. It's going to save you a lot of heartache in the long run.

Ok, so maybe this might not be the case. But 9 times out of 10, it is. Every time I see two people that do this constantly, never end up working out and are always hopping around from person to person. I hope you find a way to work it out. good luck

Answer 3

You sound like you are very insecure about her feelings for you and this is bound to show. That's not attractive to most girls. Most want a little challenge. Call her every few days and do fun things in between that you can tell her about when you talk.

Answer 4

i would say you should only call 3 or 4 times a week
going over that might make her back away
let her make the call to call you every now and then
girls like the guy to be confident but girls also like to know they are in control (or most do)

Answer 5

every 2 or 3 hours

Answer 6

Well call her at least everyother day and vist her once everyweek.

Answer 7

every friggin day...call her as often as you want to....if it's real, ya'll will make up things to say....jeeese, it ain't brain surgery, Forrest

Answer 8

well, maybe once a week or aleast on the weekends?

Answer 9

do not call her.
write her little notes and mail them.
try this.