2006-07-09 13:12:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, everyone answering has one or two kids listed. I have four kids. I do not go to bars and I do not drink. All of my kids are Honor students and one starts at a community college in the fall at 14 years old. I think I am doing well as a dad, and it will take time. But, why is it when I ask a woman out for dinner, she knows I have four kids and immediately says no.
2006-07-09 13:42:37 · update #1
For myself, I have total respect for men that have there kids with them. I feel you will have and find a women and be happy, take ur time
2006-07-09 13:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by karen g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No men with children are not forbidden to find happiness with a woman. I an 26 years old and just recently got married to the man of my dreams who has a beautiful daughter. I love her so much she is 5 and the most wonderful stepdaughter i could ever ask for. If you get someone who truly loves you they will love your children to. your children are a part of you and thats the most important thing. Dont give up. My life is forever changed for the better every time i hear her little voice or her cute little smile on her face. You will find happiness im sure i know i did
2006-07-09 13:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by lala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, lets see I got dumped, after 10-years and two kids, for the boss 15-years ago. We were living in a Mobile and I was making 30K a year.
So me two kids all the bills marched forward.
Then I picked up all the expenses for the divorce.
Then I gave up all my assets to get rid of her.
I got no child support
The boss dumped her (imagine that)
She went home to her mommy
Today,
Remarried, nice wife that is giving and has MORALS.
Two kids with straight A's
Big House, big cars, pool, lots of vacation. No credit card debt.
170K income this year.
I'm so happy I can't stand myself.
If your a good man with MORALS and find yourself a lady with MORALS. This could be your life. Does that answer your question.
2006-07-09 13:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm feeling the same, though I am a woman. Where is the LOVE?? I love all children like they are my own but I cant seem to find a guy that would feel that way about my two little ones. They want me, minus the kids.
2006-07-09 13:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Stormy Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just takes time...which sucks....but just work on you and your family, and try to get out (not just at bars). Take a karate class or playgroups with your kids or something like that and interact with more people and women, and my other suggestion is be honest and a bit slow paced with the women you meet...but mostly time. PS...don't get bitter...if you can help it.
2006-07-09 13:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by baron_von_sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is dumb!
No men find happiness with their woman even with kids.
Forbidden by whom?
What kind of twisted stuff do you all get into?
2006-07-09 13:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not by rules of nature, if they're wifeless. Nor are women if they're husbandless. But maybe they are prohibited by their family. It's really an immoral prohibtion, but women seem to choose, to live under it.
2006-07-09 13:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you're a good father, no. That's actually something most women are looking for. If you're not, well...
2006-07-09 13:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by lclaws13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not looking in the right places sweetheart. Don't give up.
2006-07-09 13:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by tiltintam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
talk to this really nice guy w/ a two months daughter
kno a bunch of girls who would love to date him
2006-07-09 13:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by tb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋