How often should I call my girlfriend while we're on break?

Question

me and my girlfriend have been going out for three months ,but went steady for two months most of the third month we have been on a break. Since its Summer vacation and i wouldn't see her much anyway it makes the break harder .If me and her stay together over the summer we'll probaly see each other once every week in a half . When we were going steady we talked almost everyday on the phone but it was me doing most of the calling. I could tell she enjoyed talking to me because we always talked for about two hours or more.But now that we're on break i dont know how much i should call her. She has called me about twice this week and i called her four times this week. The second time i called her she said her feelings grew for me but the third and fourth time it was just talking and it got me worried that maybe her feelings died down. I miss her and i want to go back to talking to her everyday since i wont see her anyway but i dont want to mess things up since we're on break

she said she hoped i don't lose feelings for her but it was her that started the break in the first place.

when we talked once this week she said that her feelings grew for me the when wet talked two nights ago it seemed like her feelings died down but she said don't worry.i havent talked to her in a day and usually when its like this she sends a text. i havent called her in a day and i want to talk to her so bad what should i do

Answer 1

You are worrying way too much. She needs to be there for you, you shouldn't have to do everything. I wouldn't call her. Just wait for her to call, if she does just talk to her, but don't act like you need her. If she doesn't call you, forget about her. It's not worth your time.

Answer 2

Being trustworthy with you sweetheart, dont play video games. What message do you want to deliver to her? do you want her back? If thats the case, tell her, see what she needs. If she doesnt want to come again mutually or she seems reluctant, enable her do not ignore that youre transferring on. existence is too short to be playing video games. about what percentage situations to call her, noone is an same, subsequently those people the following arent providing you with advice objectively, theyre basing it on their relationships and people they understand, so my advice is, enable her understand beforehand what you want. and then bypass from there.