My fiance' said he had to go out of town for a few days( due to job) and gave me some money to go and visit a girl friend of mine in another state. But he said it was a training class he had to attend. I was suspicious because I am pretty good on the puter and I have traced some of his history to online dating sites. I did this because he was always clicking off the puter if he heard me come anywhere near the room it is in. I was able to get into one of these and saw the chat. I got an adress to. My friend and I drove there and yep he was there , truck was parked in the driveway! I am 40 years old, was married and faithful to the same man for 18 yrs. I am usually pretty level headed and I was not about to go up to a stangers house and have a Jerry Springer scenerio on the front porch! Now heres the clincher.. I do love this man, and I know sometimes people do things for the excitement , he has not done this since I confronted him ( once he got home). Should I try and make it work?
2006-07-09 13:03:29 · 10 answers · asked by Fancygal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Heck no if he does it once he will do it again!!! To many crazy things guys do . dont get caught up in diseases or games. You need to be strong and go on no matter how much u luv him, it will happen again and again. trust ur instincts
2006-07-09 13:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by karen g 2 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Most likely he'll do it again. I know men say that they change, but that's not always the case, they usually stay the same. I'd say leave him, it's not like or 95 and on the death bed, you're still young enough to find love again.
2006-07-09 20:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by EYE ♥ REEN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but u should leave him. i mean he did this once so whats to stop him from doing it again? i know u love but sometimes u have to let go of the things u love for ur best intests. i would break up with him. he could do it again and he could not. whats to stop him? nothing. so live him. i hope u make the right desetion. i really do. so good luck.
2006-07-09 20:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, crush him until there's nothing left! JK!I just saw the preview for "John Tucker Must Die" and I was dying to say that!!! Anyway, make him fix it (being that he screwed everything up in the first place) and if he doesn't, move on, you deserve better.
2006-07-09 20:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why try and work things out if it already happen listen when a man is capable of being faithful AND LIES ABOUT IT he doesnt love u run im sure he wont chase u
he has his pleasure and then u leave and he has his freedom
2006-07-09 20:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by dulcelady626 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away, run far away... Unless you don't mind of course in which case I say enjoy living the crazy life
2006-07-09 20:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by tspbrady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "Now what???" You already know he cheats. What are you trying to decide?? If you want your official title to be Mrs. Cheater's- wife or not?
2006-07-09 20:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lies and cheater, not a chance, he will do it again!
2006-07-09 20:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up
2006-07-09 20:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by ally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't leave, it will happen again
the choice is yours...................
2006-07-09 20:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by Ralph G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋