2006-07-09 12:43:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
like when u ask her a question
2006-07-09 12:47:55 · update #1
my mom used to yell at me all the time....she was a bitter person and she died that way....before she died i tried to discuss her abuse so that i could "put it away" and be able to over come it. Her answer was and i quote " i didn't kill you did i?" there were many times that i wished she HAD. The pain of a parent abusing their child is unbearable to the child. I attempted suicide 3 times and failed. She never realized what she did to me. She never taught me discipline but she taught me how not to be with my daughter. she never taught me love but she taught me how to love my daughter based on how i wanted to be loved. she never taught me patience...but she taught me how to think of what actions i could take that would not make her volitile. Maybe, just having your mom read these answers from other people, just might make her re-think her parenting skills. Maybe it won't. But there are just some people out there that do not know happiness and therefore can not show it or teach it. Try praying for her. Try helping out more before she asks for it. Suggest she see a doctor for anti-depressive meds or for bi-polar disorder. There are so many reasons that make people "act out"...none of which are acceptable excuses. It took me a while to finally forgive my mom. But she never heard those words. It is too late for her. But thank God, my daughter who is now 12, does not, nor has ever, heard the hurtful words and "dog leash" conversations i have. God Bless you and I will be praying for you.
2006-07-09 13:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is she yelling about one thing in particular or just everything? If she's yelling about everything, she could just be stressed and isn't doing a very good job of handling it. If she's yelling about one particular thing, I would think about why she might be so upset about it and probably do it.
I got yelled at a lot when I was a teenager....it's not fun at all, and I made the mistake of yelling back. Let me just say that that only makes the situation worse.
2006-07-09 12:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by southerngirl627 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she yell at you because you are rude to her,or you won't listen to anything she trys to tell you? If that's why she yells you might try being polite and try to understand she wants to protect you.... but if she is one of those that are mad at the world because she made choices and her life is a mess and she takes it out on you,then she needs to be reported so she can get help!
2006-07-09 12:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOST MOMS DONT MEAN TO YELL BUT SOMETIMES IT SEEMS LIKE THE ONLY WAY THAT THEY CAN GET THROUGH TO OUR CHILDREN TRY TO TALK TO YOUR MOM AND TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER ALWAYS YELLING I HAVE A 10 YEAR OLD THAT FELT THE SAME WAY TILL WE TALKED NOW HE UNDERSTANDS THAT MOMS HAVE ALOT OF STRESS ON A DAILY BASIS IM NOT SAYING THATS AN EXCUSE BUT THAT DOES CONTRIBUTE
2006-07-17 18:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 07:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
secretlly video tape her always yelling and then somehow figure out a way to get her to watch it. Now there are times when you are probaply not doing what you should and may want to start behaving, so you may want to watch what you tape and try to see if you and mom can learn how to improve both of your behaviors
2006-07-09 12:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to stop what ever you have been doing to cause her to yell at u.
2006-07-09 12:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by Tik~Tak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her with respect. Sometimes Mom's are right! Just stop and listen to what she has to say. If you disagree with her then tell her without raising your voice. Watch your body language too.
2006-07-09 12:49:22 · answer #8 · answered by Robyn K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start listening more to what she is saying. Maybe then she won't feel she has to yell.
2006-07-09 12:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calmly and quietly ask her to stop yelling. Tell her it makes you upset and hurts your feelings.
2006-07-14 14:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by Padme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋