i once had one of those guys who was trully every girls ideal "good man" but we broke up and are still friends and we still care about each other, but the romance isnt there anymore even tho the interest is. but i'm scared because he has a tendancy to fall for all the wrong girls and he knows it and he said i was the only one he ever had that actually treated him right, and so i wanted to know, how can he stop girls from treating him wrong? and also, i found a new "good man" who is treating me right, but theres a problem...i'm getting ready to move and i have no idea when. my parents say its going to be when we sell our hose but that could be anywhere from a month to a year. should i try dating this guy and hope it works out or just be friends? this is my one chance andif it doesnt workout with him i'm just taking a break from guys for a while. so should i try it in the time i have, or should i just forget it?
please answer both questions if u can.
2006-07-09 12:30:05 · 8 answers · asked by . 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My suggestion is try being friends then the other will come if it was meant to be! I'm sure you've probably heard this same advice a thousand times but honey it's true!
2006-07-09 12:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lynn Noe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take a break if I were you. You have plenty of time for guys, why rush... especially if you're about to move?
Try just doing some of the things in life you've always wanted to do or just wondered about, because a relationship, (and especially marriage), tend to take all your time... time you could spend now doing whatever you want with no ties.
Think about it...
2006-07-09 19:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by love_2b_curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people will be people and all he can do is be himself and hope the best. " dont be reckless with other peoples hearts, dont put up with people that are reckless with yours"
and about you. it depends. are you one who easily gets attached ? if so be careful. get him to understand that it might break off at any moment. so step in with caution but remeber...thats what relationship are about. trying out other people to see whos perfect for you
2006-07-09 19:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by dagoodarab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if u r moving soon then there no point all u doing is setting yourself up 4 a big disappointment besides u say it yourself the chemistry isn't there anymore
2006-07-09 19:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by shredder97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shut up and shut up.
does that answer your ?. i'm so sick of people always crying over what they shold do. follow your heart. do what you feel is right but if i were who i'd take a break from guys already to forget about my previous one.
2006-07-09 19:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by Tomato 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant stop it from happening. he will come to learn in the end. dating gives us our lessons in who is better for us in the end. leave him to find out you cant keep him under yr wing all yr life. just be there for him went he falls
2006-07-09 19:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by yumm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to answer the 2nd question...i think you should try it. cuz then if u don't u might regret later on that u didn't give it a try.
2006-07-09 19:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still date him but if u move to far then be friend good luck of not moving far
2006-07-09 19:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋