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Depends a lot on so many unknown details here.

Like, how old are you? How old is your sister? Is your sister home? Who else is there? Is it a safe place for you to be? What kind of adult supervision is there? Is there potential for alcohol and/or drugs to be present on site?

Same questions in regard to staying the night at your cousins.
Talk to your Grandma and ask her the reasons for her decisions not to let you. She may be justified. Remember, she knows a lot more of what goes on in your family than you do.

Also, do you live with her fulltime?
Or are you there visiting?
In any case she is feeling responsible to see to it you are safe.

2006-07-09 14:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 1 0

How old are you? Assure your grandmother that you'll have adult supervision at all times, have her speak with the adults that will supervise you. Unless you've done something to violate her trust, or the environment you want to be in is bad for you, she should let you go. Many times, things may be going on that you're not aware of, but your grandmother may be. Sit down and talk to her, be open and honest, and I'm sure she'll be the same. But if you're trying to scam her, she'll probably know it. Old doesn't mean dumb!!!

2006-07-21 13:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by grandm 6 · 0 0

Tell your sister to throw a Pajama party at her house and your invited, but the party will then move to your Cousins house. Say the party is a School prject to understand the mental abilioty of a child that cooresponds to lying. She'll go for it.

2006-07-23 11:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i wish i knew how old u r.but you must not b old enough,to leave home,so if your grandmothjer is taking care of,she should no if she can trust u to do the right things,mayb if u tell her u will call her,on the hour every hour,she might reconsider.but if u break her trust,she may never bleave in u.she must care a lot for u.or she would not b taking care of u.so try to c things her way.good luck.n hope u get to go swimming,hey it may not b that she doest trust u,mayb she doest trust the kin people u want to b around.good luck..

2006-07-23 03:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by kathy r 2 · 0 0

This situation would depend greatly on how old you are, who would be in charge of your welfare and well being and of course where you are going.
If your grandma is your sole guardian she may be worried that something will happen to you.
Don't argue with her but try to have a civil conversation and she may come around and let you go.

2006-07-23 01:35:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ask grandma .... "what needs to change for me to be allowed to go swimming at my sisters house"

then... (this is the reallllllly hard part!)

Listen to her answer. Really listen.

If she says you dont need to know then tell her you understand you dont need to know but it would make it easier to follow her rules if she did tell you the reasons.

You know it could be something that happened to someone else she cared about a lot...... it could be that your sister's house does not provide you with the care.

As for staying with your cousin... if your cousin is at home with your aunt and uncle just ask them to call grandma to invite you over... and see what happens...

If your cousin is living by themself .. again it might be about grandmas concerns for your safety...

Ask for her reasons... tell her it is easier to follow rules when you know why they are made the way they are.

2006-07-19 11:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0 0

give her a phone number where she can call to check up on you. by the way, how old are you. maybe grandma thinks you need to be supervised by an adult. if she can talk to the people you will be hanging out with, then maybe she will feel a little better about letting you go.

2006-07-09 19:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0 0

Parents and Grandparents have reasons for keeping kids home at night. Most of us have relatives that might not have the best home for young girls to stay over night. Your grandma as an adult, has to use her judgment to keep you safe. My mother never allowed me to go to sleep overs anywhere. I used to resent it and think she was mean and unreasonable. Now as an adult, I realize that she had my best interests and safety in mind and I am thankful for it.

2006-07-23 11:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 0 0

Thats strange? Why does your grandmother need convincing after all, your'e not talking about going to a strangers house.

Maybe Your sister could persuade your grandmother to let you go with her.

2006-07-23 12:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by "*♥*Nafisa*♥*" 4 · 1 0

Grandma knows best.

2006-07-23 01:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy A 1 · 0 0

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