How would you feel of just kissing a guy on the lips but nothing more till marriage?

Answer 1

My beliefs are set in stone, no sex outside of marriage. The only thing a guy can do is kiss me, and hug me and that's it until marriage.

Answer 2

Sex outside of marriage is fornication, which would include petting even if one only fondles the other, fornicators will not inherit God's kingdom. No ifs ands or buts. People dating should be old enough to understand the consequences that can arise from being alone and tempted. Dating is serious and only for people who are serious about each other and looking possibly at marriage, its for learning your likes, dislikes, and other things about each other's life. Not just for going out and having fun and getting your kicks. Should go out on doubles or as a group, never alone. Practicing fornicators are still sinners. If you have already repented then you wouldn't want to delibertly sin and grieve the holy spirit.

Answer 3

I don't know i've never kissed a guy anwhere and do not intend to . call me racist but i love women:):):);:):):).
As a male i would be very unhappy to think i had to wait until marriage to sample my love. This is a different time and rules are different.
people are complicated today compared to 50 years ago alone.
It's much better to live and love together and know you were right for each other than to make the jump(especially jut for sex as many do) and find out you are not compatible after children.

Answer 4

I would be taking a lot of cold showers. Though I really don't see the need to wait until marriage as long as you are having sex for the right reasons, and protecting yourself against unwanted pregnancy and STDs. If you do it for love, then that stupid little piece of paper you get at the courthouse shouldn't be an issue.

And for those of you who say you will wait until marriage-yea everyone I know said that. It won't last forever.

Answer 5

I believe it is a sin to have sex outside of marriage. It doesn't matter if the couple are teenagers or in there 40's, 50's 60's whatever. Sin is sin.

If a man and woman wait till marriage it shows a willingness to obey God's law even if it is difficult. It shows commitment to their future partner and the union they are to share. It shows trustworthiness and respect for their partner and their selves.

It may seem old fashioned and impossible but true love is worth what ever price that is paid for it to remain strong and pure. It may seem like "times are different and rules are different" But God's word never changes and even in the New Testament - Jesus said in

Matthew 5 - 27. Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:
28. But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.


What excuse will we give God? That he didn't understand our urges? That he was too old fashioned? What other then a few moments of pleasure and baggage will we gain if we find ourselves Falling out of love afterward? Why start a marriage off in disobedience to God? Don't we want Gods guidance and hand in our lives and our marriage? Will we call on him when WE need him but ignore the things he has clearly spoken to us. It is hard to wait. But when two people are in love enough to make a lifetime commitment to each other and to God they have to be stronger then the world. We are not supposed to be chummy with the world and the worlds ways. We are supposed to be a light to the lost. We are different because we follow after Christ and he lives in our Lives and hearts. The things we do seem strange to the world because we live our life in faith and trusting God. We are nothing without him but with him we can do anything... Even stay pure until marriage! We are a peculiar people.

Titus 2:

11. For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men,
12. Teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly, in this present world;
13. Looking for that blessed hope, and the glorious appearing of the great God and our Saviour Jesus Christ;
14. Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity, and purify unto himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works.
God's way is always the best and he will reward the willing and obedient.

Kathy

Answer 6

If you are muslim ,you shouldn't kiss a guy from his lips until you will going to be his wife plus virgin .Muslims people both Male and female have no sex experiences till they will get marry cause this is GOD's command and for all Muslims feel that the wedding day is a very beautiful day cause they are together and the husband be very glad thatonly him who touches his wife and also she will be very glad to that she is the first whom he touch.

Answer 7

That sounds really strict I couldn't handle that. Also although not full sex but going beyond a simple peck would help get to know your future husband more. If you just had a simple peck until marriage and they try to catch up in one night you could be in for it. Also you don't know him at all sexually.

Answer 8

I applaud anyboy who waits until marriage to have sex. Love and sex are not the same thing and if your boyfriend loves you enough to wait until you are married to have sex with you then your long-term relationship is likely to be stronger and you will know for sure it's based on something stronger than sex.

If your boyfriend doesn't love you enough to wait, then he's not worth having sex with.

The only 100% protection against pregnancy and STDs is not having sex.

Answer 9

Sex can be up to 50% of a long lasting, healthy relationship.
If you truly are going to wait until you are eternally committed to only one person, I REALLY hope you get lucky and choose someone who you'll find sexually compatiable! I really am being serious, no sarcasm, no jokes. (check the divorce statistics...)

I wish you the VERY best of luck.

Sooo, Biblehelp...you're telling me that a rapist, murderer, etc would go to heaven if they repented, but a 'fornicator' wouldn't? Hmmmm.....HOW can you JUSTIFY scare tactics!!!????

Answer 10

I think it is a very sweet idea and a good standard to have. There are just so many icky diseases running around in this world.