I'm sometimes shy around guys....
So what are some things i can talk about w/ them while we are out on a date---- or just sitting around?
he usually does all the talking..=(lol
2006-07-09 12:05:52 · 11 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk about your interests.....that way you can find out what you really have in common and a great conversation should begin there. If not....find out what he likes to do on his spare time....if its something your unsure about..then ask questions..try to learn and appreciate his hobbies...show him some of yours...you should do great! Best of Luck!!!
2006-07-09 12:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by susie q 2 · 18⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm a guy exactly the same way. Just ask him questions about interests and things like that on a first date. What does he do in his free time, movies, music, sports, other hobbies, things like that. You can ask him where he works, if he enjoys it. Important point though, try to pick up on things he enjoys talking about. If he has a strong interenst in movies, for example, build on that. Favorite actors, favorite movies, first movie, most recent movie. See where I'm going with this? This is a start, more great answers to follow...
2006-07-09 19:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by Derrick_k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are into sports, watch sportscenter before a date and if you don't really know sports ask questions, guys like women who at least shows some kind of interest in sports. If you flat out refuse to watch sports, then speak about things that you are interested in and see how he responds to 'your world', but avoid conversations about relationships, some guys think women are trying to marry them after a few dates, don't scare him off.
2006-07-09 19:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about you, your interests, things you don't like, Talk about what you know about. If you try to talk about something that you don't know much about, you sometimes can come off as stupid.
2006-07-09 19:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys always like to talk about themselves. It's genetic, I guess. So just ask about the guy, I guess.
Ooooh, I know. You could start talking about marriage and babies. Guys LOVE that!
2006-07-10 03:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by BrianL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask him Q's like his fav color and just be a lil flirt not to much thoght caz u don't want him to think ur a ho and not to think that u don't like him or ur to shy let him make the first move ok and give him time to make the move if he takes it to fast tell him to slow it down or tell him no caz no means no and boies listen like dogs
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2006-07-09 19:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by beebegogo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay if you where talking to me i would like to talk about you life theres are planty of things to talk about. any thing dont be shy there is enough of us shy people out her now. our club is getting to full. hay i will talk but i would like a few words out of those pretty lips
2006-07-09 21:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their day, their hobbies, their other interests. Men like intellect, so be philosophical. Ask questions, just expressing interest in his life, makes them happy.
2006-07-09 19:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about something you're interested in or passionate about.
2006-07-09 19:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by LISA W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be comfurtable and talk about wat you like and you should talk more but there is the saying cant remember how it goess but stay quiet and apear stupied or talk and remove all doubt
2006-07-09 19:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by samrsbrry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋