my boyfriend has been wanting me to have phone sex with him, but i keep putting it off, because i dont quite know what to say could any of you help me ? what do guys like to hear ?
will i sound stupid ?
help!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-09 12:00:54 · 22 answers · asked by allie j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he really wants this, and i kinda wanna try somthing new.
2006-07-09 12:03:51 · update #1
XXXXXXXXXXXXX I would not do it, he'll think less of you in a long run. I know you have more respect for yourself anyways. Don't let him taint your good morals and values. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-09 12:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is just be honest with him. Tell him you don't know what to do or say. Chances are he'll respect you for being so candid, and he'll offer suggestions about what he enjoys. Conversely, tell him what things turn YOU on. Sit down & make a list of what you like, and try to think of all the ways you can describe it to him. Write them down if it helps prepare you for your first phone sex experience, but whatever you do, DON'T read from a script. You can even simulate certain sexual acts with "sound effects" (i.e., sucking your thumb to make it sound like you're giving him a BJ, or smack the palm of your hand to make it sound like a spanking). Just imagine the two of y'all having sex, and describe it to him in explicit detail. The first few times might seem a bit awkward, but you might find that you really enjoy it!
2006-07-09 19:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by oaksterdamhippiechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to POOPDICK, afterall what kinda sign in name is that? He sounds like a joke.
My advise is that if you really are uncomfortable doing it, then maybe you should wait till you are? There is always a first time for everything tho, and how bout you make it fun, rather then sexy? Just joke around a little bit - you wont sound stupid! Good luck chicken :o)
2006-07-09 19:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I have done this, we just talked about what we wished we were doing to each other, or what we wished the other was doing to us. It was actually very enlightening (after the fact) because it was a safe way for us to tell each other what we wanted to do in person.
Start off slowly, and just give a narrative of what you would be doing in person. Start off by telling him what you are wearing (you can lie), perhaps tell him you are touching yourself, tell him what you wish he was doing to you. Once you get started, the rest takes care of itself.
Good luck
2006-07-09 19:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go somewhere where No one can hear you. Get comfortable and just imagine your boyfriend is there and start telling him everything you would do if he was there.. Be as descriptive as you can .. then when you get to that part.. if you want to touch yourself do it.. if not just fake the sounds.. I dont know I dont do it but i am asuming thats who its done.
2006-07-09 19:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by its_cinful2828 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just moun a lot and let him guide you if that makes him happy!buy a silver bullet and use it on yourself while on the phone and tell him you are and everything you are doing to yourself,I have been in a long distance relationship and never did it before,but,to my surprise,it really brings us closer together and makes him happy!
2006-07-09 19:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by happy1here♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything, make sure you really want to and you're not pressured into anything you don't want to do.
For inspiration I suggest you read a little bit of erotica. Google "erotic stories" and that should give you a few sites to look at.
Most importantly, have fun!
2006-07-09 19:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk how you talk when you are in the bed having sex. Tell him what you are wearing and what you want him to do to you. That kinda thing.
2006-07-09 19:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to stop him from asking.Tell him on the phone to take out his $#@& and then start giggling.When he says what,just tell him it's your imagination LOL.He will never want phone sex again.
2006-07-09 19:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in a long distance relationship? Otherwise, WHY would he want that? Send him a nude photo instead and tell him to "use" that to suit his purposes.
Yes, you will sound stupid...
2006-07-09 19:03:15 · answer #10 · answered by LISA W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds almost like you keep putting it off because you are uncomfortable with doing it...if that is the case, don't do it just because he wants you to.
2006-07-09 19:11:04 · answer #11 · answered by pepsigrlfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋