I live in a duplex with my family and one of their friends living upstairs. Anytime I say something about their trash not being taken care of or the holes in the walls (I speak directly to the "men" of the household), they go upstairs and "tell on me" to the lady (aka, the Queen) of the household. We're all about the same age, but I guess b/c the Queen is my cousin, they feel that she'll take care of it (b/c they don't want to disrespect her by arguing I guess, idk). All it really does is make me look down on them b/c...well...THEY GROWN MEN. If I said something to offend them, I expect for them to talk to me AT THAT MOMENT, instead of 5-10 minutes later when they go upstairs and I'm talking to the Queen. When I go upstairs to talk to them directly to squash it, they (the Queen and her bf) send my cousin to the door about stuff. Am I wrong for saying something to them about stuff like the trash? Should I go directly to the Queen about everything since she apparently rules her castle?
2006-07-09 12:00:48 · 5 answers · asked by King H 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Move to a detached house.
2006-07-09 22:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not old enough to get your own place, sometimes it's best to let it be-- or, if you can, find a way to fix it yourself. You can't change those who aren't willing to change, especially when they think they are older and wiser (even if they aren't). Then, when you get an opportunity-- when you're older or have more money, get out of there and get your own place, and take pride in your home.
2006-07-09 19:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sci Nerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out
2006-07-09 19:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out or learn to live together
2006-07-10 00:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's time for you to get your own castle!!!
2006-07-09 19:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by countrybumpkin752 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋