my husband tell to do an abortion, if i do not doit he said he will divorceme, now i going throught divorce and i choose to keep my baby
2006-07-09 11:55:49 · 31 answers · asked by jessica h 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
It is your choice. You should consult with him and determine what the right thing to do is in your opinion. But remember that God invented abortion in the form of miscarriage. And that God does not kill the child when an abortion happens. MY God takes the soul of the fetus and saves it for you. My God knows that sometimes abortion is the right thing for the child or the world. And God depends on you to make the decision when it is right after you pray to him and make the appropriate investigation as to if it is right for you. In the end it is your decision and God will love you for your choice. God gave choice to women in the form of free will, you cannot do wrong.
Other gods, such as the god of the pro life movement, kill the fetus. Their god believes in killing doctors, bombing clinics and harassing women. But you do not have to believe that hateful god. You may believe in my God, Christ or you may believe in the god of the pro life movement , it is your choice.
2006-07-09 15:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by Give me Liberty 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He doesn't care about you or the baby. He sounds like a jerk that doesn't want a child. I mean, he said he would divorce you if you didn't abort it! And now you're going through the divorce and you're pregnant with his baby ... what an asshole. That's like Kevin Federline actions. Fight him all the way and make sure you get a lot of money and get child support.
2006-07-09 18:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please keep your baby. Do not destroy an innocent live. Your husband is bad. Divorce him. There is plenty of fish in the sea. You'll find some one else who loves and respects you more than this loser was. You can always have another husband but never have another chance of seeing your child if you abort the fetus. May God be with you always.
2006-07-09 19:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by jane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry but your husband is a jerk. That little baby growing inside you is a living soul. Why would he ask you to give up a part of you? If he Loves you he would've accepted it I would divorce him too. I know you probably Love him too but maybe after you have it he might turn around . Life is precious let the baby live.
Tamara
2006-07-09 19:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not an example nor a display of love.
And she/he says, "I just it to be us right now."
It was just you and him a couple nights ago too.
A real man always have a plan B. One that does not hurt, belittle, self-serving, nor cheap. Dammit, never let woman make a decision after she just asked you for one.
Never ask any of her friends what you should do!
If sex got you into it, it won't get you out.
Oh, the answer to your question. With a statement like that, he has been waiting for a way out of the marriage. He is using an innocent baby.
HE IS A PUNK!!
2006-07-09 19:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by tmcs1959 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear jess,
You made a very wise decision. I'm sure it was very difficult; but to choose between marriage to this being (I surely cannot call him a man) and murder flies in the face of all that's decent.
You will find a Man, a true man who will love you and your baby. A Man who will shield, protect, guide and help you and that precious life growing in you to flourish and grow. Most importantly, you will find a Man who will know, deep in his heart, just how difficult and courageous your decision has been. He will love you more deeply than you ever thought possible, because he will display true, unyielding love, not this phony, me-first love that your so-called husband showed you and your precious baby!
Keep loving and living, you will find the way.
Don
2006-07-09 19:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy_Don 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The abortion had nothing to do with you (the proof is "i'll divorce you"), the abortion was so that he wouldn't have to put out the time, money and effort on raising another child. While this is selfish, it is honest.
I applaud your decision to stick to your guns and have your child even tho it cost you. However, you still have every right to expect Alimony and Child support - so go for it!
2006-07-09 19:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, I hope theres more to this story. Obviously the marriage either wasnt good to begin with or theres a lot more to this story than youve told. Is the child someone elses other than his? Do you already have more kids than you can handle? Sounds like a nasty situation none the less.
2006-07-09 19:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by vacca33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um....that's a toughie. He could just be scared of having the responsibility for that kid. Do you two already have kids? If not, maybe he's one of those men that just do not want to be fathers...if that's the case and you want to be a mother...then better find out now than later when he is neglecting or abusing the kid because he resent being a father.
2006-07-09 18:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing! Good for you. I would never give up a baby. It is irresponsible and inhumane. Your husband is a dumbass. You are better off without him! I wish you the best of luck in whatever life brings.
2006-07-09 18:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by hotmama3712 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋