O.K. I already asked how to ask my crush out. But, I am shy when it comes to boys how do I fix this problem?
2006-07-09 11:53:15 · 18 answers · asked by tidalwave4ever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself..don't try to be something you are not..be confident and be kind..
2006-07-09 11:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by FloNightingGale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not something you can do over night. I am also I shy person but I have resently started speaking up and it dose work. Wait till you are ready and it takes a lot of pacents but you will know when the time is right to speack up. It is not an easy thing to do at times. I hope this helps........
2006-07-09 19:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy is something someone told you that you are. To me being shy is programmed into you by your parents as a child.
You have to overcome the feeling of not being brave or bold.
You could just close your eyes and say what you need to say kinda quick just to get it out, then after a few tries you can look the person in the eyes and say it. lol.
After a few times, then it gets easier.
2006-07-09 18:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by mnmnk00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of all the things that embarrass you or make you shy. Then choose one of the things on your list and reverse the situation.(Ex: If you are afraid to talk to boys, go up to a boy and start a conversation.) Hope this helps, good luck!
2006-07-09 18:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see from this question that you are under 18 yrs...The best way I found in life to over come shyness is just to bite the bullet and say what you have to say and be bold...Do not care about what others say about it or think about it because no matter what you do and say in life someone will agree with you and others will not.
2006-07-09 18:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by newyorkcitypimp1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk sometimes to the mirror and see yourself. Sometimes boys like also shyness girl. Practice speech outloud and talk to people you don't know, go by a hallway and just say hi to them. Express your self... be patience let ur mind talk...
2006-07-09 19:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by djmarce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just realize that he's just another guy and that he's no better than you are. Just be yourself and be confident, guys like that in a girl. Chances are he might be a little shy about it too, but go for it! :) good luck
2006-07-09 18:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Force yourself to hang out with them. You'll gradually get more comfortable around them and increase your confidence in yourself. That is the real issue here, your selfconfidence.
2006-07-09 19:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face your fears. I used to be really shy, but when you're shy you really don't get noticed all that much. Pipe up and speak your mind.
2006-07-09 18:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it a low-stakes thing. Approach other people---if it's not the guy you like and the person doesn't respond well, you didn't really care anyway, right?
2006-07-09 18:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by Karen M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're over 21 have a few drinks. It always works.
2006-07-09 18:58:35 · answer #11 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋