My step mom keeps telling me that I can't see certain ppl in my family and that I can't be friends with certain ppl and that I can't chat on Yahoo. And we're always fighting, once she told me to get out so I did then she got mad cuz I left.
2006-07-09 11:52:29 · 5 answers · asked by Kagome 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
um one day just tell her you've had it then go to your friends house and stay there until shes begging u to come back or u could just tell her that she needs to stop bossing you around or u could slap her across her face or u could just take it and still be real polite shes just probably doing all this to protect you
2006-07-09 12:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Rida 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The chatting part I can understand. Too many potential dangers involved. The friends part I can also understand. Kids are easily influenced by their friends and if those friends are a bad influence then chances are the kid is going to pick up some very bad habits. Now the family part I do not understand. They are your family and you should be able to see them or talk to them anytime. Have you ever asked her why she won't let you see them? Maybe she's a bit jealous. It sounds like she's trying a little to hard to be a Mom. Step parents are in a very difficult position. Children see a step parent as trying to take over and the step parent is trying to strike a balance between parent and friend. It's hard to know when to step in and when to back off. I am a stepmom but I was lucky. My stepsons were still young enough to need a mother figure and they weren't getting it from their biological mother and my husband gave me free reign to treat them as if they were my own children and yes that includes discipline and decision making. My suggestion to you is that all three of you sit down and have a talk. Your stepmom's role in the family needs to be clear to everyone, especially you. You don't have to like her but if your Dad has given her permission to discipline you and to make decisions for you then you need to respect that. Good luck to all of you and by the way she should not have told you to get out. That was uncalled for.
2006-07-10 03:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mollywobbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to your father, and see if he is helpful at all.
If not, talk to a trusted adult or counselor to get ideas on working things out with your stepmom. If she doesn;t seem willing to work things out, you are kind of stuck, so i suggest trying to get a counselor for yourself to support you and help you deal with your life as it is, until you can be out on your own.
2006-07-09 15:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it all depends on how old you are. But i have been there and trust me there's nothing you can do till you get old enough and out of school to do anything about it. Have you tryed talking to your father.
2006-07-09 13:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by mo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bear with her disciplining til you are old enough to leave home.
2006-07-09 22:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋