if your husband tells you to do an abortion,that's mean he really loves you?

Answer 1

Well, that depends on the circumstances, I suppose.
If you'll die if you have the baby, then that means he really loves you. If you won't die, and he just doesn't want you to have the baby, then that's a little weird and you should take a look at what his motives might be.

Answer 2

Think reasonably Jessica. Did you get pregnant on purpose? Is the baby his? Are you pro-life or pro choice? Is this something you want? You need some professional help, not some sad jabs from a bunch of strangers. If my husband, the person I vowed to honor for the rest of my life, and did the same in return, told me to get an abortion I would show him the door and tell him to think about his priorities. He wouldn't come back unless he had a REALLY great excuse and a total change of heart. That is a little life inside you girl....and you know in your heart the answer to your question. If you have any morals at all that is. I would get myself some distance if I were you. You're going to be a mom after all. Don't make any rash decisions and protect yourself. Good Luck. Nana

Answer 3

Ask him why! Is it even his? Are you mentally unstable? Are you two in financial despair! Did you get pregnant on purpose or accidentally? ASK ASK ASK!
And if there is no reason for him to even tell you what to do, then don't do it. He could also be doing it out of selfishness and will resent the baby. Or mad that it ain't his or claim it not to be his.
It's a decision that only you can make given that you are mentally stable, because it's your body. The only time I am for abortion is only if it had been a rape pregnancy or the there is some sort of mental instability or sickness. Just because he wants you to do it, doesn't mean he really loves you.

Answer 4

I think the two are mutually exclusive, meaning one doesn't depend on the other. He may love you even though he is ALSO a butchering murderer.

Wait, no I'm changing my answer. True love means you want your flesh and blood to share the DNA of your wife. The fact that he wants an abortion tells me that he does NOT want his child to have your DNA. He doesn't love you.

Answer 5

No,that does not mean that he love you that's mean that he is not ready and that's not good, take some time out 2 see what you want to do and if he loves you no matter what you do he will be there if not just keep it moving,,look a love from a man come and goes a love from a child is forever,sometime when you do thing for them just to make then happy sometime it does not matter.do for you and what you want and what your hart tell you to do ,,,hope that help l.o.l

Answer 6

I'm sorry that question doesn't make sense. The 2 are not connected. Abortion is murder. Love and murder don't go together. Adoption and love do go together. To me that is nothing more than a selfish, egocentric request that will cause you nothing but pain throughout the rest of your life.

Answer 7

i think that if you are either pro choice or pro life, it is your decision, and not someone Else's, so no it cant be love, he is trying to control you, you have to do what is right for YOU, and if it is your choice to have an abortion, then fine, but if you want to keep the baby, then even better, just make sure it is your choice, and you are the one who will be making the final decision, and if he doesn't like it, get rid of him, he has no business telling anyone what to do especially in a situation like that

Answer 8

Say what?

Would having the child put your health a great risk? Would allowing the child to come to term put the child's life at risk?

Why not just put it up for adoption?
If you can't afford to raise a child, that's understandable and there are plenty of families willing and ready to adopt. If it's a health issue, then that's between you and your husband.

Answer 9

Hell NO!!!!!! If he loved you, he wouldn't ask you to:
1. Murder your baby.
2. Put your body at risk for:
a. infection
b. later fertility problems
c. depression
I would be worried that your hubby is a very selfish man that not only wouldn't think twice of hanging someone that he supposedly loved out to dry if it ment rewards for him. Honey, you need to leave this man, because it gives me goosebumps just thinking about this!!! Scott Peterson keeps jumping to mind too.

Answer 10

Heck no. How could you even think such a thing? Kick that poor excuse for a person to the curb and move on with your life. That man is stealing precious air from the rest of us.