well im 15. i dont have any friends to gang out. i dont have anyone to speak to when i have problem, i have to keep all this problem in my head. i feel like evrybody hate me, im not a bad person. when i talk to someone i feel like their telling to get away from them. i try to make friend out the school but is hard because im to shy. i feel lonely. i do the same thing everyday. i need some friends to gang out, to talk to, for me to listen to them why is so hard. im a good looking girl, im nice to people, im a good listener, i dont talk behind people backs. i dont make nobody feel bad. i think even my family hate me. so what is the problem. do people hate me or what? if this keep going like this i dont want to live anymore.
2006-07-09 11:24:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
yes i know i spell some words wrong n i know how to speak english.
2006-07-09 11:32:51 · update #1
my parent r not the kind of person i could sit n have a conversation if i tell them how i feel they would think im playing or crazy
2006-07-09 11:35:59 · update #2
Juli Star,
We do not hate you, you have not given anyone a chance yet!
If It's a perception you have a yourself, then most likely you need to remember that people don't know the REAL YOU, and its not YOU they hate; That being said, The Question is not, why do people hate you?, Since they obviously have not gotten close to you but what can I do to start liking myself? And taking better care of myself? And projecting feelings of confidence and high self-esteem and self-worth? You have to feel worthy and know you are valuable and others, those who want to get close to you, will be drawn to your confident feelings...
Try to remember that feelings, can be sensed by others, and they can withdraw from you, and that does NOT mean they do not like you, it just means they do NOT know how to deal with the feelings they sense that you are projecting
Hope this helps some.
2006-07-09 11:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 14⤊ 4⤋
sounds like you're kinda miserable lately.
try making yourself happy in the morning with something you like - music or a magazine or something. then if its a good day, try going up to someone in school and just starting a conversation.
they probably don't hate you, but it can feel pretty rotten sometimes. i'm pretty sure your family and the people at school would be surprised if they knew you were this upset - you might feel better letting someone know so that they can tell you how much people really like you.
hang in there, good days will come along soon. call a helpline if you have to, or speak to a teacher at school - no one will laugh or ignore you. remember that most people have bad days, no matter how cheerful or together they seem. you're not alone.
2006-07-09 18:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by jellybean 1 · 7⤊ 1⤋
First off all maybe its just in your head I sometimes think people hate me when they really don't actually i felt that way about a boyfriend I had. maybe you just need a little confidence. But if you ever need someone to talk to I'm here I have yahoo messenger My ID is mandyluvsrupert and my e-mail is mandyluvsrupert@yahoo.com you can im me or e-mail me anytime ok. I hope i helped a little bit.
2006-07-09 12:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by mandyluvsrupert 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
When I read your question, it gave me two impressions: 1. You are a little bit depressed.
2. You're trying too hard.
I would tell you to see the school counselor and also to just be yourself. People who could share your same interests will approach you if you are yourself. Also, maybe you could join some group/club, like one that has to do with sports, reading or at your church.
Good luck!!!
2006-07-09 11:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by Belindita 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey, sounds a lot like me. I don't think most people hate me, but i do have a really hard time making friends and i'm really shy. But it's not worth dying over, believe me. I get really lonely alot also.
If you ever need someone to talk to, just email me. I'm about your age. Click on my name, then click on the link that says contact me
2006-07-09 13:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mirror Muse 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Hey kid, quit beating yourself up. I doubt anyone hates you. You may be suffering from some form of depression (it's common for kids your age). Have your mom/dad make you an appointment to see a doctor. And sometimes it helps to find something you enjoy doing. A part-time job, a hobby, a volunteer job... something that makes you feel good about yourself and what you are doing. Take care, ok? And don't respond to any weirdo men telling you they'd love to be your "friend"... be careful out here!!
2006-07-09 11:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by mJc 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
We'll let me tell you something people tend to make fun of people with problems but it isn't nice the best thing to do is to find someone like you and befriend them share stuff about yourself
2014-06-03 14:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by Nick Majetic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could say more to you but at this time I can only say try to find some new people that haven't seen you before and see if you are treated differently. Then ask yourself why do friends and family treat you so badly.
2006-07-09 12:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No one hates you.
It all has to do with the way you approach yourself to other people. Try smiling more and saying hi to everyone.
Have you considered seeing a doctor. Its seems you're depressed.
2006-07-09 11:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by Q. 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
At some point in time, many people feel the same way you do now. Don't let it get you down, it will pass, just make sure to open yourself up to having friends in your life. I bet you a lot of kids in your school want to get to know you they are just shy to talk to you.
2006-07-09 11:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by bzmag 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋