Girls, what would you do?

Question

My cousin asked me to be in her wedding. and my mom said that "I should write her a thank note". But i don't know what to write
does anybody have any ideas?

Answer 1

Just write something brief:

Dear (name here),

First of all, congratulations on the upcoming wedding, I know you'll make a beautiful bride. Second, thanks for asking me to be in the wedding- I'd love to! Let me know if you need any help, I'm right here.

Wishing you a happy life together...

Your Name

Answer 2

I would say if you really were thankful for being in her wedding you should write her a thank you note saying just that. If you really didn't want to be in her wedding just write her a polite thnk you note saying that you were flattered.

Answer 3

In general a thank you note is not required for being asked to be in a wedding. Being in a wedding is usually aggravating and expensive.

Answer 4

write her a thank you note for being in her wedding? that sounds lame...she chose you to be in her wedding, because she thinks highly of you...not because she's expecting a thank you note from you...pick up the phone, and ask her what she's got planned so far for the wedding...you are a part of this now...

Answer 5

Are you going to be in the wedding or are you writing a "Thanks, but no thanks"?
If you're going to go, you might just want to say in your own words what you feel about being invited and how nice it was for her/him to invite you. All you're saying is "Thanks for asking me to be in the wedding." in a thank you note. Do you want to say more? Then, say it!! Just talk to them in the letter like you would on the phone. The nice thing about a "thank you note" is that you can keep it with all the other stuff to remember your wedding day (if you're one of those people who does that). I like keeping little souveniers of things like that.
Anyways....Just write from your heart.

Answer 6

Writing a thank you note is always good. When you write it, just tell her in your own words that your thankful for her thoughtfulness in inviting you to be a part of something that is so special in her life. That that means alot to you.

Answer 7

something like... Dear ...., I wanted to say thank you for including me in your special day. I know that it will be incredible and I can't wait to be a part of it. Thanks again, Love.....


Remember that being in someones wedding is a costly venture. Dress, hair, gifts, etc. add up quickly. If this is cost prohibitve for you, tell her early and tell her why. she should understand, especially if she is paying for her own wedding. Have fun with the planning.

Answer 8

1) Greet the Giver ex) dear cousin

2) Express your gratitude ex) thank you so much for asking me to be in your wedding

3) Discuss use (usually if you got a pair of earrings or something) ex) I guess you can leave this one out lol

4) Mention the Past, Allude to the Future ex) it was great seeing you the other day, and I can't wait to for the big day!

5) Grace ex) thanks again for including me

6) Regards ex) Love, Me


remember, its just a thank you "note" it doesn't have to be a letter. Just express your gratitude!

Answer 9

Dearest so-and-so,

Thank you so much for inviting me to stand up with you at your wedding. I look forward to being there as you and so-and-so celebrate the beginning of your new life together. A marriage ...

"Two souls with but a single thought,
Two heart that beat as one."

With love and affection,

Answer 10

Thank her for being your cousin, and if shes nice , sweet and u see her alot, this is what u should say:
Dear Cousin,
Congrats on getting married, Im very proud of you.
Thanks for being my cousin, You are very sweet and nice. Her (fiance's name) Is very lucky to have you. I am very pleased and honored that you invited me to be in your wedding, thanks. I love you, and i hope you never change. Thats What I would Write! well good luck!