i met this guy but we are working together thrue this summer program and there are rules that say we a not sopos to date thrue out the summer cuz we are working together the rules are not held varry tightley and i know he likes me to he has told me himself and i really really really like him.what should i do??????????????
2006-07-09 11:05:57 · 33 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The summer isn't that long, for Pete's sake!!
2006-07-09 11:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by Nosy Parker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just date casually until the program isover. There is no rule in two very very close friends seeing each other and having a good time, are there???? And who will be supervising you two on those dates??? I dont think anyone would; so what happens is no one elses business. Just keep it low key while at work.
2006-07-09 11:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by prodigy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....if i were you I'd wait and see if he asks you out. I would just limit your relationship to phone calls until the end of your job.
I wouldn't take a chance to ruin a good summer job over a guy. it's not worth it, especially when you don't know him that well. It's only a few more weeks anyway until school starts again. Just be patient and enjoy the attention.
2006-07-09 11:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Fiona70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of places have rules about people working together can't date etc.....If i get what you are trying to say ? In as much as you like this guy take things one day at a time and be prudent.
2006-07-09 11:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my spouse at work and we worked there for a year, even getting
married while still working for the same company.
The company guidelines were all based around preventing
sexual harassment - which they took to mean having one
person working for the other.
You want to avoid that one, but otherwise, as long as your behaviour
does not detract from the business, there shouldn't be a problem.
2006-07-09 11:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK! You have two options. You can tell him that you cant because of the rules from your work and he has to understand that or maybe go out as friends for now. OR you can find another job if its not a hassle.
2006-07-09 11:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by Celetatious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes you and wants to date you, wait until the summer is over and you are not working together. many places don't like you working in the same place. I could not work in the same place my husband was working in so I had to work in another office. rules are rules. summer will be over soon enough. wish you well.
2006-07-09 11:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it and jus keep it out of your workiin enviornment even tho that may seem hard. or you could wait untill your summer program is over. but like i always say do what makes you happy. and also some things you do or dont do you might regret so you might regret it if you dont give this reletionship a chance. so go ahead and try at least you tried that way you kno you didnt give up easy
2006-07-09 11:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by moogleliz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a summer program right?? Well then go out with him! You just have to keep it secret for a few weeks then the program will be over and you'll be free to do whatever you want!
2006-07-09 11:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until the summer is over with and just get to know each other while the time being and then around august-september,1-2 months,start being bf and gf
2006-07-09 11:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by tulsagrl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cmon just hold out a little, go out a couple of times behind the bosses back and then hit it off fullscale once summer is over
2006-07-09 11:08:58 · answer #11 · answered by SpankmasterFlex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋