How do I reach out to a girl who I have called too much??

Question

How do I reach out or talk to a girl who I have called too much in the past few days without seeming desperate?

Answer 1

Hello-
At this point, the best thing to do is to STOP. Girls find it a major turn-off when a guy seems to be too desperate. If you really think that she's the one, the best thing to do is to wait a few months and then, call her, very casually and just ask how she is. If you have been calling her too much in the past, during the months that you giver her the cold shoulder and drop out of her life competely, sooner or later, she'll wonder what happened to you..and that's the time to call.

Answer 2

This works. Don't call her at all, but when you do tell her what you want (movie, dinner) don't stammer and if she says no it's not all bad. The next time your with her at school, or a group of friends don't ignore her but hold back a little. Wait until it looks like you just kinda bumped into eachother and greet her with a big smile but kind of a smug one at that. Now, here comes the hard part, when theres a lull in the conversation or better yet another guy joins the conversation excuse yourself and say "loved talking with you but I have to go see ya" Then turn on your heel and walk away. I don't know why this works but the more you act like you don't care...The more they care about you.

Answer 3

If you have called too much take a break. Wait two or three days and try calling and leaving a sincere message or telling her sincerely. " I like you, you are_____________(nice. pretty, smart... whatever you feel) and I would like to take you out." If this does not work. She does not like you and you are scaring her. Accept that and move on. Unless she is your future wife, go somewhere where you will be appreciated.

Answer 4

Well at this point, you don't. Too late. Maybe she'll respond to earlier calls.