It seems that every time there is a problem in a relationship the first thought is divorce, break up. Why do people give up on relationships so easily?
2006-07-09 10:27:11 · 8 answers · asked by nexus2k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because people have no idea what a relationship really is.
People do things out of convenience, necessity...you cannot get married or date anyone for selfish reasons. Relationships are all about RELATING to someone else. You have to first know yourself well enough to share yourself with someone else doing the same thing. THEN you both have to like what has come from sharing. But we don't do that anymore. It's all about sexy bodies and booty calls and bling-bling or whatever.
But sometimes, you'll run into somebody that understands exactly how you feel. Make sure you're ready...
2006-07-09 10:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Society as a whole dislikes very much to do things that require any sort of work; so when relationships turn awry, it is understood that work is required to rebuild the relationship. People just do not care enough to put in that amount of work, and the easy way out is to get divorced or to break up. People just do not like the idea of actually putting in an effort to keep things going.
2006-07-09 17:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many people just give up before they even try. It takes both people to be 100 percent dedicated, in order for things to work. If one gives up so easy, how are you ever supposed to work things out? The world needs a wake up call. Have you seen the movie CLICK? That movie has a good message about this kind of thing. Good luck..:)
2006-07-09 17:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by Emily :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are impatient and uncommitted. We live in a throw away society where we just want to be free as fast as possible and treat the lover shamefully. People doubt their ability to work things out or making a positive permenent change. Its very negative and everyone just wants to start over with new.
2006-07-09 17:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by ssunfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people think if the problem is that bad like when trust is involved and you dont trust that person no more than it will be hard to earn there trust back so they just give up and move on.
2006-07-09 17:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by Tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beacuse it's EASYto get a divorde, and most People think thye should not have to work at it!!!! VERY SAD!!!!! :..(((....
2006-07-09 17:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by mywaypink 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont, me and my gf worked out ours.
2006-07-09 17:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by Angel E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know
2006-07-09 17:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋