2006-07-09 10:25:42 · 23 answers · asked by phoebe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is a tricky question
A. if this was a good relationship and he /she became an ex for reason like had to move or went off to collage ect. then pick up were you left off. no harm in that.
B. bad relationship broke ya up like cheating, lies, or any thing else in that BAD LIST then NO NO people may change but not always why get back in to something that did not work the first go. there a wide world of people dont stay stuck in a bad relationship when you can have a good one
2006-07-09 10:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT get back together with your x because you hope to have those "happy days together" again. Do consider the reason why you two are not together anymore. Give it a try only when you see possible improvement. DO NOT do it because you feel guilty or you believe your x's love and suggestion is enough. Make a decision that will make you both happy or at least comfortable with each other despite the break-up.
2006-07-09 17:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mercii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally it depends on which ex. I had one ex who meant the world to me. If he were to ask for me back; I would really consider it. We did have something special and something worth saving if that's possible. It reallly depends on you perception of that relationship. Some couples aren't meant to be. Sometimes time apart can be very helpful, if you are debating the question this much maybe you should give it a try.
2006-07-09 17:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by nexus2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of why you aren't together now.
You've both had a chance to see how life is being
apart. How was it? Can you, or him over come
bad things in the past, and let them
STAY IN THE PAST.
If you have feelings for him, and you can forgive
and forget, then try again. If not, keep moving on.
2006-07-09 17:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that, forgot to get the t-shirt. After a while, whatever it was that caused us to break up the first time resurfaces and then we're right back where we started in that vicious cycle of breaking up to make-up. It never works for me, I prefer to leave well enough alone.
2006-07-09 17:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you break up in the first place? chances are it will happen again so say sorry loser but i don't think so unless you think you really "love" them but trust me i have experienced this before i went back out wit my ex and he did the same thing he said he would fix. so that was a big O no hell no
2006-07-09 17:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Dimond eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if u broke up with him and still hav feelings for him than ya get back 2gether but if he broke up wit u and it really hurt u than hell no theres a chance he'll do it again and u don't want to go though that pain twice
2006-07-09 17:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what cause the seperation in the first place , depending on the level of the seperation , and how best you have adjusted to deal with his issues , you may go for it .
2006-07-09 17:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by jammyngz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, do YOU want to let him back into your life? If yes, then talk to him and see if you can work something out. If no, then just reject him and if he bothers you, get a restraint order from the police. Remember, always follow your heart.
~Reyanne~
2006-07-09 17:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by Reyanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on which ex wants to come back,if she was a player and only out for herself,she can go take a long walk off a short peir,if she was a decent well mannered lady yes i would consider taking her back!
2006-07-09 17:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by cerebral assassin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋