my fiance has cheated on his ex wife but i know he will never cheat on me..?

Question

the other woman never gave him any attention so he went out looking for it.....

Answer 1

if you are so assured he will not cheat on you why are you posting this. Its most likely cause you truly are insecure on whether he will or not. telling you its cause the other woman never gave him attention is an excuse and is not how you treat a partner you took vows with or have a committed relationship. dont fall for this. he did it before with a lame excuse he will again once you get , fat, old, distance, overworked, not as exciting or many other reasons. most of your posts are about you fiance and his ex you basically already have a problem there wake up, grow up and smell the coffee.

Answer 2

Okay, for one, once someone's a cheater they're always a cheater. Men and women ppl. "The woman never gave him any attention so he went looking for it..." is just a bunch of bs cheaters say.

In any relationship it is not required for you to "give attention to" the person you're with just so they won't cheat. That leads to resentment on the part of the giver, expectations on the part of the taker, and sometimes even force and rape (this is an extreme case, but it does happen more than you'd think) because if you decide one day not to "give attention" and you let the other person know it's okay to expect it, you've set up a bad situation. It still would not be anyone's fault for getting raped, besides the rapist, whether they set up a bad situation or not.

You don't owe anyone anything, no one has the right to cheat.

Are you the one that the fiance cheated with? Because many times the person who is cheated with thinks the person who cheated won't cheat on them and 99.9999% of the time they do cheat again.

Answer 3

Maybe ! People cheat for lots of reasons. Heck, sometimes they don't know why they do it.
Personally I cheated during my first 2 marriages. It doesn't matter why. What matters is that I've been married to my 3rd. Wife for 13 years now and have never once cheated. I've never even thought about it.
So. Yes it's possible that he won't cheat but it's also possible that he will. Life is full of choices. Do what you think is best for you.

Answer 4

He'll always have a reason to justify why he's cheating....not enough attention, the sex got boring, she let herself go, etc.....I have a feeling none of his excuses will be good enough when he gets around to cheating on you. If he cheated before he's bound to do it again. She probably thought the same way you did until the "other" woman came along.

Answer 5

I would say if a guy cheats then he cheats its him cheating not who hes with or what she does or doesn't do. I would say if you are even asking this you have good doubts. Smart..now act on it.

Answer 6

I hope you two don't plan to have kids... sounds like you already got yourself one... oh and yes he will cheat again.. they always do. He apparently doesn't know how to be content and satisfied with one woman. Good luck with that one

Answer 7

then why are you even bringing it up if you are not worried? i just hope you can give him "enough attention" to keep him from cheating on you. remember, there are always two sides to every story, have you heard hers?

Answer 8

Honey once a cheater, always a cheater in their hearts. My question is do really believe that he won't cheat on you?

Answer 9

That is the excuse he gave you and the new "other girl" will get the same one when he is bored of you.

Answer 10

he will cheating on you. maybe not now, maybe not in a year, but he will cheating on you.