HI
im 14 years old and my dad just got married again, his wife has a 12 year old daughter, and she never called my dad "dad" and that was cool with me, until today my mom called my dad and she answered, and well here's the conversation.
mom-hello is (my dads name ) there
step-sis- no
mom- whos talking
step-sis - his daughter
mom- whats your name
step-sis- Darinka....
well that was the conversation and i heard it all, i got really pissed, cuz she is not my daddys daughter, i am.
am i right if i tell her to back off, i really dont like her calling MY dad "dad"
thanx a bunch.
2006-07-09 09:23:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no she doesnt have a dad.
but i'ts a known fact that my dad doesn't like her (nor do i) he and his new wife always fight because of her.
why u may ask, well .... she lies a lot and gets everyone in trouble. i know that my dad doesn't like her cuz we talk a lot and well he has told me that.
2006-07-09 09:38:39 · update #1
and yes im planing to talk to my dad teling him how i feel about this.
2006-07-09 09:42:03 · update #2
Does this girl have a father?
2006-07-09 09:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lordy Lordy, the woes of divorce. All adults out there, pay attention. Don't bring this kind of crap into your childrens life. Work thru your problems and stay together at least til the kids are grown. Kids have enough crazy stuff to deal with without their parents wigging out on them. You picked each other so work thru whatever your problems are. Quit being selfish and wanting your way. You brought a child into this world. Deal with it. Shame on you for putting any more problems on your kids than they already have. And don't tell me it is a "friendly" divorce and the kids are well adjusted. there is NO SUCH THING. They will deal with your lack of dedication as a parent and partners for the rest of their life.
To Whatsername: You ARE your daddys daughter. Nothing can ever change that. Darinka is probably glad to have him in her life and is starving for love from a dad. Always know you are is little girl and always will be. Go spend some time with him and talk to him. Things will seem different when you are around him. Its just when he is not there that you feel insecure.
2006-07-09 16:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This Girl is not only part of your dads life but also yours she is now your step sister ok so you may not like it but you have to deal with it the best way you can your dad has re married so unless it was a fly by night romance you will know this girl already. You should speak with either your mum or dad and explain how you are feeling they may understand i know my stepfather did and you will be fine in a few years time you will wonder why you got so upset cause your dad will love you just the same as he always has :-)
2006-07-09 16:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not be mad. You should be glad she thinks of your dad as HER dad too! Maybe her real father is gone or isn't a very good one(?). In any case, there is nothing wrong with your dad having another daughter in the house. That's really between the two of them. Do you not like your stepsister? Because if that's the case, then you have another problem. You should talk to your father about this.
2006-07-09 16:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by ami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's always hard when a new family forms. At least she respects your dad to call him dad. I wouldn't take offense to it, actually I'd take it as a compliment, so don't stress over it. Who knows, you and your step-sister may grow to become very close. But seriously, don't let it bother you. It'll all be ok in the long run. Best of luck to you..........
2006-07-09 17:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY FOR ONCE I KNOW HOW IT FEELS.AND I PERSONALLY WANTED TO TELL HER OFF AS WELL BUT I HAD TO BE THE MORE MATURE PERSON AND JUST LET IT GO. THAT WAS MY DAD AND JUST MINE YOU JUST HAVE TO PUT IN YOUR HEAD THAT YOU ARE YOUR DADDYS LITTLE ANGEL AND THAT HE WILL NEVER STOP LOVING YOU.YOU WERE THERE FOR HIM THEN AND SHOULD BE NOW.EVEN THOUGH YOU MAY FEEL DIFFERENT NOW NEVER LET ANYONE TELL YOU THAT HE IS NOT YOUR FATHER.HE IS,NOW,AND WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR DAD NO MATTER WHAT. IF YOU NEED TO TALK E-MAIL ME @ heavenlybeautifulbaby@yahoo.com
2006-07-09 16:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by ke-ke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it needs to handled by your mom and dad. You don't need to create friction between your new step-sister. Maybe tell your dad, that you need assurance with the new set up and how he feels toward you. But, to get involved thats your mom and dads business.
2006-07-09 16:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Father -daughter pow-wow -- very good idea.Then involve your new stepmom and step sister.Come to some kind of agreement that makes everybody happy. At least try.
2006-07-16 05:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyone can be a sperm donor. but it takes a special person to be a "dad". maybe he said it was alright if she called him dad. you may not like it but it isn't your choice. you don't own him. its hard when a new member of the family comes into play - just give it time.
2006-07-09 16:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by SAGAL79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right any way why did your dad remarry your step sis should back away cause she is just acking like a jerk she is just telling your mom that your dad dumped her because of your step mom
2006-07-09 16:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by Nadiya T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but she didn't actually call him "dad" she probably didn't know who was on the phone and just said "his daughter" instead of "his step-daughter". try to be understanding, its hard not to have your own Dad at home, i know, my parents seperated before i was born.
2006-07-09 16:35:04 · answer #11 · answered by Freedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋