Why cant women appreciate a good man when he is with him? why do you break up with a good man and then get used and abused by several a** holes then want the good one back. Why would the good guy want you back after you gave up the poo nanny to all those A** holes?
2006-07-09 09:20:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not about you, but about them.
Women sometimes like "Bad Boys"... but when they want to settle down, you may be what they are looking for.
Hang in there because you will eventually "Win"!!!!
2006-07-09 09:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by Rada S 5 · 14⤊ 6⤋
Why? Good question.
First you must know the meaning of the phrase spoken, a good man. Any woman must consider first the meaning of the word good, and then look up the bible meaning.
In todays society that phrase alone is hard. Is the good man, serving the Lord, not only in words, also in his life with his deeds.
Any woman with a good man must first know how to be good to herself, and that itself will asure the goodness of a mate alone with the approval of Christ. Which was a good man, in words, and deeds.
So why would any woman get rid of a good man for the bad ones?
Most likely the woman or women do this thing to themselves because the woman or women do not feel worthy to share their life with a good man, so woman or women settle for what they feel on the inside of themselves.
Not desiring to be treeted good, at that time or moment.
Men also go through this phrase of life.
2006-07-09 16:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Spartasheia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow......someone did a number on you eh? not all women are like that. some are just not ready. maybe what they see scares them. i been single a long time. i am talking with a man i find very attractive, but he is also genuine, sincere, hard working, attentative, he' a nice guy and is looking for a future longer then a couple of months. something long lasting and real. so i'm taking my time. getting to know each other. the rest of my life is a long time, and i want to go in with both eyes open. so, dont' worry, some one is there for you. you just need to give it time
2006-07-09 16:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say they are insecure. Not sure of what they want. Most likely they need to sort out what they really want in a man and in their life. Try not to lump us all together, some women do appreciate a good man.
2006-07-09 16:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by Dreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are running into the wrong ones. That is okay, because when you find the right one you will know and you will sort of be glad you ran into all the Wrong ones because when the RIGHT one comes along you BOTH will have great respect for each other. Just hang in there everything will work out and I always believe that everything EVERYTHING happens for a reason. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-07-09 16:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by â?¥á?¦á?¦â?¥ CRISSY â?¥á?¦á?¦â?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not all women, maybe you should change the type of women you go after. You know the old saying "you don't know what you got till its gone" well just know that they are thinking of you and now you have the power to tell them bye. Move on and try to find a different type of woman
2006-07-09 16:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You here all these women on these boards talking about looking for a nice guy. What they really want is a man to put them in check . Wimpy guys are for talking too, not to have a relationship with.
2006-07-09 16:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because mate, we dont provide enough danger and excitement for them. they want the fun that comes in the guise of a "bad" guy. but when that phase passes they come back to the good, caring guy to heal their wounds. its best to understand this and be there for them, but also look out for yourself. and in all get what you want in life too. dont play dr. phil everytime. make them realize what theyre giving up and dont take them back and get mad at them. its ok to break their spirit its not their heart.
2006-07-09 16:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, you've got a valid point, although I can't quite understand your English: "When he is with him?" What does that mean?
Stay a good guy; you will be rewarded some day!
2006-07-09 16:26:13 · answer #9 · answered by Nani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is life sucks! It's same reason that all the men want the little wasted big boobed girls that treat them like ****.
2006-07-09 16:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are attracted to BADBOYS and like to be treated like that, some cannot handle a nice gentleman!
2006-07-09 16:23:36 · answer #11 · answered by sam_keane_uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋