I don't know why, but my mom is the only one that annoys me sometimes. She can do the smallest things & I get really frustrated and sometimes over react. How can I stop letting the little things that my mom does annoy me ? :\
2006-07-09 08:15:44 · 20 answers · asked by Sonya 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Is it just you or does she annoy everyone? I don't know your mom but some people are just annoying and there is not much you can do about it. If it's just you that finds her annoying then, you should just relax and try to see her in a different way than you usually do. Like try to have a more open mind about her personality and try not to be so judgemental. Everybody is different and you should at least respect that.
2006-07-09 08:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sidereality 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
My kids sometimes absolutely hate me and sometimes love me--and my actions, words, and attitudes haven't changed from one day to the other. Now how can that be?
Well, maybe they are embroiled in the changes that happen during adolescence;
maybe they think I have all the power,
maybe they know what's right and what's not right, but they'd like to wishful think the truth away;
maybe it's because I'm around them more than anyone and I'm the safest to hate. I love them no matter what they do.
I suspect it's all of the above, with a dash of the truth that I really can be annoying, even to myself. Now what can you do about it?
Wait for a while and things will probably get better and while you wait try to be a decent citizen within your family and take care of your responsibilities. Have some worthwhile interests that get you and your mom out of each others' hair for some time, too. That will do wonders, as will giving the poor woman a break and actually saying something pleasant to her once in a while.
2006-07-09 08:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by LC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom annoys me sometimes 2. She doesn't clean up after herself, she makes really weird faces, etc. It's natural if you're embarrassed of her around your friends. Just remember that she loves you first of all. Second, sit down and tell yourself I won't let the things she does annoy me anymore cuz I deserve better than that. You just ignore it and keep in mind that you can't control what she does but you can control how you react and if you let it get to you or not. Good luck!
2006-07-09 08:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by 77684 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your mother isn't your problem it's yourself. We allow the tiniest things to annoy us cuz we let it. We try to put blame on others for the faults or stress we deal with. Second, she gave you life so appreiciate what annoying things she does even if its something so stupid like throw the trash out or wipes her nose. We allow stress to invade our brains so we target whoever is in our path. Even the dog barking will annoy you or the way your mom's voice sounds. I was told that being depress can allow anything to annoy you. I go through what you go through but its the neighbors cooking and running the water what annoys me the most and what I do in return is drop my sofa on the ground so loud so it will annoy the neighbors but does it? Probably not. The next step would be to make a list of what your mom does that annoys you and discuss it with her. If it's something annoying like wiping her nose on the dish cloth and than washes the dishes. Otherwise, start reading, listening to music, draw, go to the mall and just watch people walk around or go to other places. Try not to focus so much on your mom's annoyance or it will drive you nuts, literally. Sure it works for some but not others. Sure it may hurt your mom's feelings but ALL mom's are understanding mom's so let her know what is going on. I know I annoy my son and he annoys me but this is life and it goes with it like breathing air everyday. Ask God for guidance and support if all fails. Mom's loves unconditionally so whatever you say will not harm her it may wake her up. Good luck...
2006-07-09 08:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by smiles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes moms annoy us because they're mom. I t may be something small like you said and maybe not. Sometimes they're asking out of concern and sometimes they're not. You'll have to discern that. It really is easier to answer when you ask something more specific.
2006-07-09 08:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your mom will get on your nerves untill you reach an age where you can become like friends. And trust me youll get there sooner or later just try to be calm and ask what you could do to make her happy and say i will try and now I need you to talk to me about things like you beleve in me to do the right thing and see how it gose
2006-07-09 08:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by danjessemilykami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing you are between 13 and 16 years old.
Don't worry she will bug you a lot less when you are a little older.
By the way, appreciate your mom while she is here. My mom died in 2001 and it feels like forever and I miss her so much.
2006-07-09 08:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom could just be wanting to spend quality time with you, but as people grow up, they get annoyed by their parents and need some space. If you want her to stop bothering you say "mom I need some space" and Im sure she'll be fine. :)
2006-07-09 08:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by nicoleofun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom is the same way and i am 31 with a family. I guess she just wants to still know that she is needed. She just wants to know that you make the right choices in life.
2006-07-09 08:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by sydneykay4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear just try to become little silent and watch somethings like a spectator i think you are too much causious so enjoy your life being a spectator you will be happy
2006-07-09 08:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by suraj06k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋