You see I'm now dating this guy from church but for a while I wasn't ready(God wasn't eady)to date him. i really like him and think he's amazing but she's mad b/c I'm being a hypocrite. PLEASE help me.
2006-07-09 08:10:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Do not let the opinion of one person effect you so much.
Live properly -- and the TRUTH will show soon enough.
2006-07-09 08:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by whynotaskdon 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have to ask a question before I can answer yours. How are you being a hypocrite? If you feel that you are ready to take on a boyfriend then test your strengths and do it, but if you get hurt because you really were not ready it will only hurt you more. Your friend may think what she will you can not change that. You need to figure out if you want a friend or a boyfriend, or maybe you can talk it over with your friend and have both. It all depends on how you approach the problem. Remember everybody has a different point of view and you must try and relate. Maybe she feels that she is going to lose you if you date or something of that nature. I don't know because I don't know the whole story. I ask that you will ponder this problem before taking action and that no matter what happens between you and your friends that you will forgive any harm that may come. I hope I have helped you in some (even in the smallest) way. Have a wonderful day.
2006-07-09 15:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Angels live amoung us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You be you, nobody tells you whether you are ready to date or not. I am not sure what you are referring to if you are not ready to date but you go ahead and date? Remember people are gona tell you all the coulda woulda shoulda's but you decide and walk thru that door so if you decide you want to try dating then do it. God will see your heart and that you just want to do the right thing and He will honor that. Maybe things will turn out to be just friends or you may find that are not ready to date and that is not being hypocritical that is a part of life and you are still learning. Don't sweat it just live and love life!!!
2006-07-09 15:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by AlwaysLaughing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hypocrite is someoine with a false sense of virtue.... I don't see you being a hypocrite, its OK to wait to date a guy until you are ready. Maybe your friend is just jealous... that's her problem not yours, I'm sure she'll get over it don't worry.
2006-07-09 15:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by Chris C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not a hypocrite. u were not ready. uve become ready. u are not a hypocrite so tell her 2 realize that fact, becuase its not like u said, "He's a fag, and id never go out with him" then go out with him. u said, "I'm not sure if i'm ready to go out with him." then some time later u said, "I feel that i have become ready to go out with this guy" thats not hypocritical.
2006-07-09 15:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by xXBrudu BXx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask ur friend ,Whats her definition of hypocrite?unless you said you never would or ect. Then she doesn't know what shes talking about.people can change their minds that doesn't make them hypocritical
2006-07-09 15:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by porcelain65711 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see anything hypocritical, but i don't really think we have all the information here.
And as for "God wasn't ready." We hear so little about god's dating habits....
2006-07-09 15:15:37 · answer #7 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found that most people who call others hypocrites and really themselves the bigger hypocrites.
2006-07-09 15:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by Spud55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her how is that you are being hypocrite. 1st u weren't ready to date and now you think that you are reday to date, i do not see any thing wrong with that. perhaps she likes him that is why she is being mean to u.
2006-07-09 15:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see- you weren't ready to date him and you didn't... Then you started dating him when you felt ready- sounds pretty logical to me!!! Tell her to get a dictionary!!!
2006-07-09 15:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by Grimm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋